On the verge of quitting

Brador · Sep 9, 2019

skibum71 said: ↑

Youre basically saying "why does no-one value me, when i attach no value to myself?"
Thigs dont work that way, never have and never will. So that begs the question, how do I value myself? Well for people like us, with very low/non exsistent self esteem, learning to value yourself is a long, and sometimes hard road. Changes do not happen overnight. Ive battled through life (im 47) in this way, and last year after a rejection I decided to declare war on all the limiting narratives Ive been telling myself my whole life (Never gonna find anyone/ED + PE means no sex life ever again/no woman would come within a million miles of me/pretty much every other man is more attractive than me etc etc etc ...) With the help of a wonderful psychotherapist im starting to see the light at the end of the tunnel. Things are falling into place.
I think you need to think about doing something similar. Or you can take the easy way out, tell yourself there is nothing you can do about it, put your feet up and enjoy a life of unhappiness, unfulfilment and loneliness.
Its up to you where you go from here.
Good luck!
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Thanks for the reply. However, at this point, I'm going to end my life. After 10 years of effort, I just can't make it work no matter how hard I try. I'm too stupid for college and I'm a disable vet so I can't work. I have no purpose here.

skibum71 · Sep 10, 2019

Dude, everyone has a purpose - to fulfill their potential.
I'd suggest seeking out a psychotherapist. Talk to your GP. It may be that you are suffering from clinical depression. This is an illness which CAN be treated with medication. Do not listen to the crap that 99% of the people here talk about anti depressants. If you do these 2 things it's very possible you can start to move forward in life.
Good luck...

goodnice 2.0 · Sep 12, 2019

Brador said: ↑

Thanks for the reply. However, at this point, I'm going to end my life. After 10 years of effort, I just can't make it work no matter how hard I try. I'm too stupid for college and I'm a disable vet so I can't work. I have no purpose here.
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Brador don’t do that man. Your life is precious and valuable. You can turn things around still.

Anyone that seeks death won't be able to stop PMO.

PMO is an escape from pain, problems, and negative experiences. Death is the ultimate form of that escape.

Man has but to right himself to find that the universe is right.
http://goodinfection.com/book-quotes-as-a-man-thinketh-james-allen/

DonSphinx · Sep 16, 2019

Brador said: ↑

Over the last 12 years, I've come to terms with the fact that any woman I express interest in, no matter who it is, will reject me. In fact, rejection is certain even before I've had the opportunity to evaluate whomever I could be potentially interested in if at all. This has been my reality. My question is if I'm never going to have any form of sexual contact, much less any physical contact for the remainder of my existence, then why even continue NoFap? I mean I am aware that porn is nothing but bunch of pixels, but at 32, the imagination is all I have left and I still have sex drive. Furthermore, I've lost interest and the desire to be social and more "outgoing". The very idea itself is a turn off to me now. I'm pretty much at a crossroads were it seems that both paths lead to the same place.
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If it make you feel any better, today i approached 6 different women and got rejected 6 times in a row (current streak day 93) but i will not stop - i will go again next week until i find someone who will give me a chance, no matter how awkward, or much it hurts, lets do it together brother until we find what we are looking for, i will keep learning together (sorry english not good), even though im past 90 days nofap and still getting rejected - nofap stopped the "bitch response" after im rejected, now i dont feel sorry for myself anymore (bitch response), because feeling sorry for myself does nothing but nofap help it does not hurt as much when a girl says no or not interested so i can continue to try again and again

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