On the way

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by Dancerleb, Aug 22, 2019.

  1. Dancerleb

    Dancerleb New Fapstronaut

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    so hello there everyone.

    I’ve been a very silent user of this website for some time now, but finally decided to share my story to the world.

    I’ve been one of the people who discovered orgasm through masturbation and porn since I was so little. Maybe 13 I guess ..and all that time it has been porn porn and porn..masturbation after masturbation.. I once masturbated 6 times in a row in about 2 hours.

    I used to jerk off to Christina Aguilera’s dirty clip (don’t judge me on this am pretty sure guys my age were almost doing the same since we didn’t have internet at that time).
    So the thing escalated over time.upgraded to lesbian videos.. later upgraded to threesomes... to transgendered person porn..to cuckold.. it was a hell of an upgrade with time, until I became 29.

    Can you imagine 16 years of masturbating to porn every fucking day ???

    So I decided to quit porn 2 years ago..always failed..longest streak was 12 days..until today!! I hit my 50 days benchmark. So congrats to myself for that

    I haven’t mentioned that I have a veeeery active sexual life with girls too..had too many girlfriends and short flings..but always enjoyed porn more.. but, I also realized that sex with girls always needed upgrades so I would be able to cum.. to a place where I couldn’t even orgasm during sex. ED was also an issue..so all the negatives combined, i decided I gotta stop this.

    So that’s basically it for me now.. 50 days and counting.. I hope forever.. now my erections are rock hard when am having sex with my girlfriend..she is even afraid of my dick size and I don’t even recognize my erections..they are too strong..

    One problem still not fixed though is the time I need to cum.. I think it is too not sensitive anymore and it will need time to regain the sensitivity.. I also need more stimulation to cum, but it is getting better and I feel it.

    So this is my story.. hope it helps some other people going through nofap.. reading the posts here made my journey easier..so hope I can make a change for someone too..

    Sorry for the long post. Thank you for reading.
     
  2. Strijder

    Strijder Fapstronaut

    Great man, respect ! Now do 50 more :), you can do it.
     
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  3. Dancerleb

    Dancerleb New Fapstronaut

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    Thank you!!! Good luck to you too
     
  4. Asgardian36

    Asgardian36 Fapstronaut

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    I appreciate your success story, man! Good job! I hope you will regain sensitivity!

    I am surprised, I can relate to your PMO journey. I feel depressed af almost all the time. I think that influenced me, I haven't had a career, no money and no GF. I'm still a 28 y/o virgin. I think its all related. If I get my shit together, get a nice job, work hard, get in shape.....I might have an extremely slim chance of getting a GF!

    Coming to your story, what were the things that helped you along the journey?
     
  5. Dancerleb

    Dancerleb New Fapstronaut

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    Well I guess what helped me the most is realizing that there is a problem in the first place.

    After I did, which was about 2 and a half years back, I couldn’t still fix it..but, I kept reminding myself that I have to do it..and the rest is on your unconscious to do the job. I kept reminding myself the negative effects am having from pmo..I kept on reading the effects of porn,and also any addictive behavior. So when ur body really wants u to get its sh!t together, you will be able to do it.

    Keep the determination bro..failure is just part of the journey..

    The fact that you are already here and trying to find answers is a great step and it’s a proof that soon you will be through them all.how much time it takes I don’t know..relative to every person..but we will all get there bro.

    Keep it strong
     
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  6. Asgardian36

    Asgardian36 Fapstronaut

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    thanks man, appreciate it!!!
     

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