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one month challenge

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by kingmaster, Sep 28, 2019.

  1. kingmaster

    kingmaster New Fapstronaut

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    heyya all.. great to have a forum like this, finally something that got me Stop/pause it by going through the postings of others !

    Am 30+ and have been beating my meat since more than a decade, always wanted to stop it, but just couldn't get there. No matter what, I couldn't hold myself aback.. max that I could hold-on was just for a mere 3-4 days and later I would end-up beating my meat. Finally I saw this website and it encouraged me to try to at-least for a month and I started my journey from Sep-7 ( YAY, completed 3 weeks successfully )

    The challenge that I gave myself was to abstain from masturbating for 4 weeks and later I would end-up hoisting my flag after the completion of 4weeks.. 4 weeks ends on Oct-5, I dont know if I should hoist my flag ( beat my meat ) at the end of 4 weeks, just to celebrate knowing what am capable of doing !

    And BTW there are a lot of changes ( Very good changes ) that I observed in myself during these 3 weeks.... will share..
     
  2. Mark4600

    Mark4600 Fapstronaut

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    Am on my first attempt either, started in 8th of September, 21 day achieved. Hope to get next 30 days, Goal of 90 days If possible....need advice how carry on afterwards
     
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  3. kingmaster

    kingmaster New Fapstronaut

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    Hey.. good luck ! I hope you get there, Goal of 90 days was a bit long for me to run at the first attempt, and hence I felt I could hang-on only till 30.. I see a lot of changes in myself.. confidence levels are pretty high, bodily hair is more thick ( it was thin before ), am more aggressive ( I was pretty soft natured before ), all in all, its great to be in here in just 21 days.. Once you finish 90, am sure you will see someone new in you !
     
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  4. quit@porn

    quit@porn Fapstronaut

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    Great for first go.... Keep it up brooo
     
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  5. quit@porn

    quit@porn Fapstronaut

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    Sureeee
     
  6. quit@porn

    quit@porn Fapstronaut

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    I ma also new ( 1month ) to this. My experience is that things those were nightmares tk me are seems to be possible...
    I could not stay with P for 1 day but now I could spend week with ease. Altho I failed I my target last time i fappwd on 26th day.. But after that things are pretty good.

    So long so good.....

    Now on 12th day.... Taken on hard mode just 2 days before... Best luck to all of you..


    We shall overcome :)
     
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  7. Heyyy welcome to the NoFap forum : ) It's nice to see you here fighting the good fight alongside us!

    Here is just some advice:

    First and foremost please take a look at each section in the forum, there might be something(s) you may find of big help to you. Feel free to post there :+)

    Then secondly I just strongly advise you to be active on your profile(as there quite a few active people in the profile section). Please start by choosing an avatar and then make daily status posts to show you're active and needing support/encouragement. They've also got a neat little feature that shows freshly posted statuses for all users to see. People will find your profile and give you encouragement/support.

    People (are beginning to) love communicating in the profilesection..(it should be and is )mostly spportive talk but it doesn't hurt to deviate from supportive talk. It would be great to have you join in and support others in the threads, profiles, and journal. Make sure and be grateful for the help you received and help after receiving some. Invest in some people's journeys. We could always use your help and in return you shall receive some as well!

    Thirdly, You should also highly consider creating a public journal and write about your days in more depth for us members to follow along your journey and offer support to you by way of posting in your journal.

    Last but not least: Good luck on your journey here, make sure to really give it a try with all your heart!
     
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  8. kingmaster

    kingmaster New Fapstronaut

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    Hiiii all.. I just couldnt help but i ended up beating my meat on 27th day ! buy YAY, this was the first time I went this long after maybe a decade and I really feel great, some changes that I observed in me was I became more confident and was more social, no longer trying to be alone and dont gent nervous among a group.. And ya, I get very aggressive ( I need the aggression due to my work ) and that helps me.. all in all, it feels great...
     
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  9. Mark4600

    Mark4600 Fapstronaut

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    good, try to stay stronger fot next 30 days
     

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