One of the Methods that helped to reach the 100 days

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  1. Harrynak

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    this should be a sticky post
     
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    [QUOTE = "theoptimist, post: 1552326, miembro: 3762"] Hola a todos,

    Escuché que es fisiológicamente saludable escribir una carta de despedida a tu adicción (Imagina tu adicción como persona), que te ayudará a recuperarte. Escribí mi carta y me gustaría compartirla con todos aquí.

    Querido porno,

    Thank you so much for being with me for almost the last 15 years of my life. You gave me a temporary good feeling during the hardest times of my life. Every failure or tough situation, I encountered in high school, bachelor degree or the Masters degree you were there for me even in the most stressful days during work, you helped me to feel better, when my father was diagnosed with lung cancer stage 2B, I was scared as hell and PMO was the only thing that made me feel better, when I moved to live in Germany during the toughest times of homesickness you were almost the only thing that made me feel happy or at least feeling temporary better, when the girl that I loved, broke up with me. The first thing that I did was running to my screen to have a dosage of relief even when I had a crush to another girl and she rejected me, I was running to home, like a dog running to catch a piece of meat but that feeling was always …always temporary and fake. For me that was not enough I always needed more and more. You (Porn) never solved any of my problems - You just numbed my feelings and emotions for some time.

    I realised that your harms are far more than your benefits, I realised that I shouldn’t be alone and I should move on with my life. I should meet more people and seek my own happiness. I can’t support this industry - even thought I never spent any money on you. I can not increase the number of the viewers. I can not motivate people to invest time or money on building or expanding such an industry.


    For the following reasons, I decided to stay away from you

    • A lot of people are suffering sexually because of you.
    • Some people lost their jobs because of you.
    • Some women suffers every single night because their partners can not satisfy them and they can not share their pain with anyone because of you.
    • Some innocent children will suffer and have a tough childhood because their parents will get divorced because of you.
    • Some young guys are becoming more and more depressed and they do not want to be connected with the real people because of you.
    • Many young men are diagnosed with ED and PE because of you.
    • Many guys are learning to treat women in a bad aggressive way because of you.
    • Some guys started to love beating girls because of you.
    • Some men objectify women and started to judge women based on their bodies & looks - not their characters because you.
    • Many married couples started to stop loving each others because they compares their partners with what they sees on the screen and that’s of course because of you.
    • Some innocent women are being insulted, humiliated and forced to work in this industry for the money, because of you.
    • Many people may suffer from deadly diseases because of you.
    • Even some pornstars died from deadly diseases or committed suicide whether because of extreme depression or overdose because of you.
    • Children younger than 13 years old are becoming porn addicts because of you.
    • Many people start comparing themselves with what they see on the screen and became more and more depressed because of you.
    • Some people might be future criminals because of you.
    • Many women were victims and got raped because of you.
    • Some women started to have desensitized gentials because of you.
    • Some addicts jumped to extreme categories such as aggressive porn or sex to children or animals because of you.

    Incluso aunque no llegué a los niveles extremos, pero podría alcanzar ese nivel algún día, podría extrañarte pero NO PUEDO ... Realmente no puedo aumentar los números +1, ya no puedo ser egoísta. no puedo ser una persona hipócrita, nunca pensé que estaba destruyendo la sociedad al ver porno, pero la verdad es que sí, lo hice. Antes de pedir cambiar mi entorno, primero debo cambiarme, luego comenzaré a ayudar a los demás a no caer en la misma trampa en la que caí. Adiós porno….…


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    Lo siento por los errores de gramática, el inglés no es mi primer idioma. [/ QUOTE]
    Muy buena Te felicito, un resumen de las razones por las que debes dejar el porno.
     
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  4. theoptimist

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    Thank you and congrats on your 60 days :)
     
  5. theoptimist

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    Thanks much!
     
  6. theoptimist

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    Thanks :)
     
  7. theoptimist

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    Thank you very much, I really appreciate your kind words
     
  8. theoptimist

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    Thank you too
     
  9. theoptimist

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    Thanks :)
     
  10. theoptimist

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    Thanks for your kind message and congrats for your work
     
  11. theoptimist

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    Thanks your kind words means a lot to me
     
  12. theoptimist

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    Thanks!
     
  13. theoptimist

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    Let's keep going and trying to be better than yesterday
     
  14. Sounds like a plan :)
     
  15. Zexiant

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    Great message
     
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