One Year No PMO

omerico2121 said:
Very inspiring! I've been here for a while (2 years), and I've had my ups and downs with trying to remove PMO from my life. Lately I began to try seriously again to quit PMO, and I've started the 12 steps program. I've even embraced God to my life! I'm feeling quite positibe about it this time. I'd like to get some advices from someone like you who'd been clean for a very long while, mostly in regards to the mindset you keep.
Thanks in advance!
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Sorry I took so long to respond. I would be happy to help you. Feel free to PM me.
 
Myfortress said:
You should not pursue a relationship with someone until you are done with porn. Then you can have a meaningful relationship based on more than sex. You don’t want to substitute a person in the place of porn it will never work. If you get control of yourself, then pursue a relationship. This is just my opinion. I have used women as a substitute for P and the addiction was still being fed from another source. I did not address the issue.
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We shouldn't replace women with porn
We should control ourselves 1st
Sir, u made my day with this utmost wisdom, respect......
 
Myfortress said:
Don’t give up the enemy always wants to try and drag you back. You get stronger and stronger with every temptation you overcome.
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YES YES these are wise words....we do get stronger with every temptation we overcome. I have got so far then relapsed into using porn but I have started again and each time I am feeling stronger and like I can beat these addiction that does not serve me at all! I feel SO much more free without porn in my life!
 
Its like a dream to me. From 2014 i started nofap, my formula was avoid PM for 1 week break, 2 week break, -----1 month break, 2 month break..... And one day i will be able to 12 month break from PM. But my formula failed again and again. Because i felt lonely in my journey and lost motivation.. The most long break i had taken was 2 month 20 days in 2018. But then starte again those drug addiction life. Finally i found an awesome community, now i don't feel lonely. I am starting my journe,, on my 16th day. I will cross 365 days. Wish me good luck frien.
 
peaceisalwayspeace said:
Its like a dream to me. From 2014 i started nofap, my formula was avoid PM for 1 week break, 2 week break, -----1 month break, 2 month break..... And one day i will be able to 12 month break from PM. But my formula failed again and again. Because i felt lonely in my journey and lost motivation.. The most long break i had taken was 2 month 20 days in 2018. But then starte again those drug addiction life. Finally i found an awesome community, now i don't feel lonely. I am starting my journe,, on my 16th day. I will cross 365 days. Wish me good luck frien.
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You can do it. Go for it. I believe in you. I will pray for you.
 
Myfortress said:
I recently celebrated 1 year without PMO. Thanks to lots of good support and encouragement I received from my brothers in the Christian group on this forum. My life began improving after 60 days PMO free. Most notably my attitude and moods changed for the better. I began to re-gain control of my life. I am now able to resist temptations without hesitation, before I let them play out in my imagination and spiral out of control. My job and family life are continuing to improve. Most importantly, my relationship with God is better. He is revealing his plans for my life post PMO and they are exciting. PMO had me locked in a cycle of failure and discouragement. Do not give up! Keep at it. You can get the life you are supposed to have back again.
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Way to go brother. Praise God.
 
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