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Orgasms and sex after curing pied

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by UnitedWeStand, Jul 27, 2020.

  1. UnitedWeStand

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    I have managed to cured my pied (rarely i get no rock solid erections but still good for sex-due to a little performance anxiety). Thing is that if i have sex once and have an orgasm it will take many hours to have sex again and sometimes my erection is either limb (like 70% or 110%). Even after a period of no sex and no pm (maybe some O's from oral) it goes like that.
    Is it normal?
    Do i have to do sth in order to have more successful sex? I get the urge to have sex but body doesnt seem to react like my brain does (or the opposite?!)
    Yesterday i did sex 2 times and felt so depleted. I have done sex 3-4 times in a day but yesterday was different.
     
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    I wouldnt consider myself as a sex addict but more as porn addict. Sex is fun and this is how it is for me right now. Thank you for your time to answer. I will try to keep it moderated. I asked all of those because im 22 years old and i consider myself not having the sex drive of a man in my age.
     
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    I think i overdid it but i wouldnt say that we have to have sex once a month only to reproduce. Thing is after the first time im having sex second time finds me with a semi erected penis. I know that its due to refractory period but i asked if i could do sth so i can have a good erection everytime im having sex.
     
  4. One thing that is for sure is that you have a false image about sex in your mind. There is no specific number that defines what is right or wrong in your age. Many people in your age are still a virgin and have no sexual interactivity at all - with or without porn consumption. You need to get rid of these false images that porn and social media give you about your sexuality. It is great you got control over your ED back again. Having sex is great and fun and you should not pressure yourself about how often you can do it or how stiff your penis gets after mutlible orgasms.

    There are many factors of your body that have an impact on your performance capacity. Both physical as well as psychological. Successful sex is not defined by the number of times you have intercourse, on the contrary: The more often you have it the more normal it gets and the effects and the excitement will wear off over time. There are happily married couples who have a great relationship and are happy with their sexual life even though they probably will only have sex every few weeks or even few months! Great successful sex comes if you can open up to someone let yourself fall and enjoy the amazing time together! At least for me that was the best sex I ever had.

    Do not try to push anything. Let it happen naturally. I had the same stress and thoughts as you had for a long time. Stressing during sex is not normal as well as having false expectations about it. Chill, relax and enjoy - sometimes only give your girlfriend a great time without even getting active yourself. There are many ways you both can be connected without having real intercourse.

    Just chill. That worked for me.
     
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    You are right tavla thank you so much. Now i recognise that i pressure myself so much just for the ideal sexual life that media and porn give. Lately i hear lots of people having much sex in a day and i got affected by this, but how is this possible these people have 3-7 times a day successful sex when i find myself getting weak erection after first orgasm? I mean these people just wait 10-15mins before having sex again..
     
  6. I highly doubt that many people can perform sex that often in a day in a natural way. Often, I think it is a lie to fit specific stereotypes or there are specific substances involved in order to perform that often or super long. There was a "trend" a year ago or so where couples would use a drug to perform intercourse for hours and hours on. This is not natural at all. This shows an abnormal "acting out behavior" and is for sure as unhealthy as porn and heavy masturbation is. You have to imagine there are many people that have abnormal sexual behaviors but are not aware of them themselves.

    Naturally, a man cannot stay hard that long, also a too long erection can be hurtful. Women will not be able to keep their wetness. Having sex that often is for sure irritating for their sexual parts of both men and women. And where is the fun in having pain or irritation in your penis or vagina. In porn male actors use substances taken oral or injected with a needle into the penises that keep them hard for hours. Women use tons of lubricant in order to perform.

    Forget these false and stupid claims. I think what you should do is as @StarRider already suggested to moderate your sex life and conciously slow it down. If you and your partner both occasionaly feel like it to have sex three times a day then go for it but I think you will learn a lot by slow it down and go the natural way. :)
     
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    You are right! Thank you so much for this! Hope you the best!
     

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