Our community could change the world

Long post but worth it.

Sexual crime is on the increase, domestic abuse, rapes, incest, and child molesters are increasing. Why? Because of porn.

https://endsexualexploitation.org/wp-content/uploads/NCOSE_SymposiumBriefingBooklet_1-28-2.pdf

If anyone needs motivation to want to quit pmo, then that pdf is the one to read.

Nofap has brought us all here together as the strongest community i have ever been apart of and i am blessed and thankful to be a part of it and for every one of you, we span from across the globe and are the friendliest and kindest and most helpful and supporting people i know, and we are complete strangers. There are almost 500 000 of us and that gives us the opportunity to help others suffering from the affects of porn, that we have gone through. We could save thousands of women being beaten and raped, and thousands of children from being abused, and countless men from committing suicide, maybe even millions if we share our stories and tell others the dangers of pornography.

Through our reboots we are becoming stronger and wiser, we are the pioneers of the single most beneficial and enlightening self improvement program on the planet today, and it puts us in a unique position to help other people suffering and save a persons lifetime of misery, anxiety, hatred and stop them from hurting others too. One child abused or sucked into Porn addiction could then abuse countless others once they've grown up based on their negative experiences, and extreme porn habit, their fantasies will turn into another persons nightmare reality and then the trickle down effect occurs and evil spreads. You already hear about it in the news multiple times a day, and they are the only the ones that are being reported, and iv read it in Reddit relationship advice, its spreading.
Relationships between people are crumbling, companionship is deteriorating, we are becoming ever more isolated, depressed and suicidal, lovers are cheating, men are becoming cuckolds , polygamy is becoming the norm. And what do we turn to, to seek comfort? We turn back to porn, its a repetitive evil cycle that is i think the most dangerous addiction in the world, because it is destroying our sociability, and we are inherently social animals, that crave and need human interaction to feel belonging and acceptance and a part of a community, where love can be shared and progression as a human race can continue.

Porn could perhaps be seen as a conspiracy to break down men, or it was just started as a simple recreational pleasure back in the 60s, that has now gotten out of hand. The majority of people reading this will be men, and as men, it is absolutely necessary to view porn as something that is directly attacking our identities. It is crippling our natural desire to create, to accomplish and succeed in healthy creative outlets. Its destroying our energy. Along with gaming too. Their have been books coming out, about the fall of man, and millennials still living with their parents, boys not succeeding in schools or work, a huge suicide rate, depression, no drive, addiction, no girlfriends, infidelity... And the world is attacking us for it, remember the gillete advert? And what is taking over is a extreme feminist world view, and these non binary people that demand other people to call them what they want, impacting free speech, politics is becoming ever more extreme on both ends of the spectrum and theirs no middle ground anymore, children are being told they can be gender neutral if they decide they want to be, what kind of damage could that spell for their future, a child doesn't know anything, i wanted to be a duck when i was a kid, id be pretty messed up if my parents and society validated this. However children are being attacked by these extreme liberal people, and i believe its all because MEN have become SOFT, because of porn and games. We are becoming lazy and distant, we dont care anymore and thats why these extreme views are becoming more prominent and getting more traction, because there are no strong willed men, arguing back the logical reasons that make sense, its feelings over fact, when its should be facts over feelings. We need to become enlightened, imagine if their were more Jordan Petersons in the world, defending and sticking up for whats logical and right, that has hard proof and science backed research. We can shape the world back to what it should be, back to the middle ground, where there are no extremists. As men its our responsibility to overcome our hardships and addictions so we can help others, and save the absolute destruction and retardation of our society.

So anyway i have been reading this book called the Power Of the Now, by Eckhart Tolle. (Im not promoting his book, anyone can do this without reading it, but it goes into great detail about it). Its helped me not think about P for an entire 10 days and that's the best iv done since i started Nofap last year. It explains and teaches you that, there is nothing else in the world that matters other than the present moment, so stay in the present moment and don't day dream or think about things that give you pain. Look, feel and hear your surroundings, enjoy whats around you, be the watcher of your thoughts, feel your body, stay present, because this is the only moment that is ever truly real, your past isn't real in the present unless you allow it by thinking about it, and the same about the future. It helps ease anxiety, depression, anger, frustration. Take animals for example, you don't ever see a flamingos or pigeons suffering from depression or anxiety, its because they don't think about things other than whats immediately around them and their survival instincts. They are completely present and therefore in harmony with nature, and that is exactly why we are poisoning the planet and our minds, we are killing ourselves because we think too much.

The power of the now is truly exceptional and i think it should be the no1 book for Fapstronauts and everyone else. It is hard though, however just like nofap its hard changing an entire lifetimes habit, like with anything it takes practice, the more you practice it, the more present you become and therefore enlightened and happy. But that is also why it is easy, because it is self improvement and we are already learning self improvement through our reboots, this is just another tool to help us get there. Check out the guys picture as well hes 71 and he looks about 40. That is the power of the now, he has no stress and that's why he looks so young.

Spirituality is nothing to be afraid of either,(i consider myself agnostic, i used to be atheist, however i think its arrogant to disregard all possibilities), its different for anyone you ask, but spirituality is basically the opposite of egotism or materialism. You become enlightened by being present which dissolves the ego, but why would you want to do that you ask? Because the ego is what we think defines us as people, it is a collection of thoughts from all of your past experiences up until this point, it is the voice that brings up the past (causing depression), it is the voice that wishes for a better life in the future (creating anxiety), it has superficial arguments with people in your head, etc. It is what the Buddhists call the chattering monkey, and when you turn that off, then all of your problems instantly vanish, you have clarity of thought and a feeling of bliss, you can usually feel this instantly when you are in the countryside, observing nature, feeling the wind on your skin, and hearing the birds sing, you are at one with nature again. By becoming spiritual and harmonious, with yourself, you then realise that nothing can ever hurt you, because your ego does not get involved, insults will slide of you and you can remain calm in any situation, because you are present. That is exactly what everyone should be like, and if enough of us start in this spiritual journey we will have a fighting chance of changing the world, becoming happy, finding our true selves and becoming the men we want to be, making a lasting positive change.

I know if we all become present then we can all become enlightened and that is an entire generation and community of people that could potentially change the world for the better, because its a hell atm and its getting worse, people need to be educated about all these new hidden dangers we face, we only realise them until the damage has been done, but its our responsibility as successful role models (once we kick the habit by helping each other) to help the next person, and especially the children that are now getting hooked on extreme graphic porn, its a dangerous future if we don't do something about it.

So to wrap up, stay present and become enlightened, 500 000 enlightened people could help create a new world, a peaceful world, full of love, friendship and community. Because that's what the world is lacking at the moment, we could be its saviour, together.

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Regards Ginseng