Why are you a virgin over 20 y/o? You didn't have a chance, no girls liked you, were you shy? I guess for me it's partially because of porn and fapping. I was also shy, but that was mostly middle school. But girls didn't like me till 11th grade, I was 17 at that time and already hooked on porn for many years, so when I had a chance with girls I wasn't interested. At all - 0 interest. And it continued to this day, I wasted dozens upon dozens of possibilities and so I'm a 23 y/o virgin.