owning my erections

I do not want to be passive when it comes to my arousal. I want to become aroused and erect responsibly, when the time is right.

I hope this does not sound too weird, but I want to be able to control my erections and to some extent my arousal. Has anyone managed to do this?

I feel that it would not be right or possible to avoid all erections, but I would certainly like to have an understanding that my erection is not because I am passively being led by a certain lust, but rather because I am choosing to have it.

I have decided that the best way to do this would be to prolong my morning wood throughout the day (since morning erections are not tied to any conscious stimulus, these erections feel "pure") and are in a sense like a form of chastity.

Chastity not in the sense that you can't masturbate, but rather that you are completely ready and able to. But don't. This is an overwhelming and somewhat painful feeling that somewhat resembles a sore muscle.

I hope that with time, I could control my erections in this way. But I may be fooling myself and am deriving a small percentage of sexual satisfaction by doing this. Hope this makes sense...


P.S.
I am using this technique to maintain my morning wood throughout the day: if you search: "anal breathing herballove" on google you can see a link to the "herballove" website (click on that one) to see the method I am using. (I am unable to post any links as new user (but the site has nothing inappropriate, I promise)