I know this is on a much smaller scale compared to what you're dealing with but my libido came back by itself after a two month clean streak, that was after a year or so of trying and failing with smaller streaks in which libido was totally absent. I didn't attempt to "rewire" with women, it just came back one day. I can't say how that would relate to your case but I personally don't believe in the whole jumpstarting thing, it may work as a temporary fix but I think the problem will still remain. Also I don't know if anyone else experiences this but even when I see attractive women in real life, if I focus on them for too long I feel the after-effects(head pressure/spaced out feeling/disturbed sleep/slight depression), I can imagine these effects would be magnified greatly if I were to become intimate with a girl. Recently I've become kind of interested in the effects of SSRI use and how they compare to the flatline, the similarities are kind of striking to me and just confirms that this is all due to brain chemistry. PSSD(post-SSRI sexual dysfunction) is essentially the same thing as PIED, the cause may be different but the result is still the same and in many cases this can take a while to resolve itself, I don't think forcing it through sex has worked for many people. These are just my thoughts and personal experiences though so take them how you will. I'm currently coming up to four months now and still flatlined so that just proves that the effects of relapsing are progressive as two years ago I was much further along on a two month streak than where I find myself now.