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Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by Goat matata, Aug 30, 2020.

  1. i don't give a fuck whether or not I resort to bad language. The truth is still the truth and a lie is still a lie. No, I can't argue with you. I'm allergic to wasting time.
     
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  2. Good luck to you then.
     
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  3. matt2k12

    matt2k12 Fapstronaut

    whats your deal man? you are very eager to be right :D i hope you have a splendid day! if you feel like reaching out you can always message me
     
  4. Thanks, and you.
     
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  5. bbb5891

    bbb5891 New Fapstronaut

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    Firstly, well done for 3 months of no PMO.

    I think you need to question the reasons as to why you went into this relationship. I'm hoping I haven't misunderstood you but you mentioned about having sex with someone who is out of your league. Was that the primary reason for going into the relationship? She isn't your wife and your relationship with this person is less than 3 months and doesn't sound like there are strong reasons to be with this person other than for a sexual relationship. If that's what you're both looking for then happy days. If shes looking for something more in the relationship then she'll probably be upset by it.

    One thing which might be your saving grace by telling her is that it was just sex, no friendship and no love for this prostitute. She was a stranger. If she JUST wants a sexual relationship with you she might be ok about this. I actually think she would be more hurt if you had sex with someone you had feelings for rather than some random stranger.

    I think you should come clean and be honest with her. You'll feel much better for it. It might not have the outcome you want but at least you can learn a lesson from this. You might both learn something in terms of what you both want from the relationship if there will be one going forward.

    If this is your first time with a prostitute be careful you're not swapping one addiction for another. An alcoholic might swap a beer for the golf course, which is relatively positive, however swapping a porn addiction for sex with prostitutes is a negative one.

    Lastly don't beat yourself up about this. You've had the confidence to admit a mistake and ask for help, just try and learn from it.
     
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  6. Eternal96

    Eternal96 Fapstronaut

    Emptying your balls in a hooker is the very same as emptying your balls in a stranger you meet down at the club, you obviously don't think of it as cheating but your GF could feel differently if you don't tell her you obviously don't respect her, you can't have a "lifelong" healthy relationship without respect
     

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