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Partially rebooted

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by r_ryan85, Dec 2, 2017.

  1. r_ryan85

    r_ryan85 Fapstronaut

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    Hi all, I just ticked over yesterday to be on month 4 of no porn. In the last few weeks, I've been able to have sex without the assistance of any pills or anything else. It felt like the longest 4 months of my life. I really felt like I was letting my gf down.

    Anyway, my sexual function has really improved compared to when I started. About 2 weeks after I quit porn I went into a flatline and erections were terrible. I couldn't have sex. My erection quality is better now, but it's still not the same as before I quit porn and went into this flatline thing.

    The other issue I'm facing now is premature ejaculation. I can't last as long as I used to before I quit porn and went into a flatline. I hope it improves with time, and also, I guess I'm not fully rebooted yet because my erections are not strong as they were before the flatline. Not even close - it's just barely good enough to penetrate for sex.

    I have a feeling that erection quality and ejaculation are somewhat related. I remember times in the past when I was really turned on, with long foreplay, and I had no issues with erections as I was not in a flatline, I could last for ages. It was impossible to cum with a condom even.

    Any suggested treatment options for PE?? I don't mind taking drugs or looking at any options because I will never relapse to porn - so I won't have any setbacks. Therefore, the treatments are hopefully only just going to be there to bridge a gap until I fully recover. I know 100% that I'm never going back to porn. It's been a walk in the park for me to not watch porn. I don't even feel like I'm fighting against anything to stop myself watching it. I just feel no interest whatsoever to watch it because back in August this year I just realised how terrible it had made everything in my life. I quit cold turkey. It was easy for me. The pain of not being able to get it up was so brutal (worse pain I've ever felt by far - cried like a girl). But that was my motivation. That's why it's been so easy for me.
     

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