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Paying for sex, advice needed

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Ted 123, Apr 10, 2018.

  1. Apr 10, 2018 #1
    Ted 123

    Ted 123 Fapstronaut

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    I've got this really bad habbit which I'm really embarrassed/ ashamedof and was wondering if anyone on here could relate or give me advice.......

    About 2 years I got bored of porn and wanted to try the real thing so I started to look up at escort sites. At start I only had a look but that led to texting and eventually led to meeting them in hotel rooms. I felt so ashamed of my self after what I did and was disgusted with my self and felt so low. But after time past I found my self back on the escort site in the same cycle!! Also I'll always go on these sort of sites before watching porn. It's something I hate but for some reason I'm having difficulty stoping!!

    Can anyone offer some advice or been through the same thing?? Thanks
     
    Ted 123, Apr 10, 2018
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  2. Apr 10, 2018 #2
    Mankrik

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    Hey there - it's difficult to fully prevent yourself from being able to access these sites. A lot of mental discipline is required and the habit can be difficult to break. Just remember your life will be better off without these short term pleasures that leave you hollow inside. Don't think too much just find the resolve to cut it out of your life for good and look back and be happy that you did. The alternative is the same vicious cycle that leads to guilt and pain and sadness. Take a step back and quit succumbing to the lust that makes you take love and women for granted.
     
    Mankrik, Apr 10, 2018
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  3. Apr 10, 2018 #3
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    its a very difficult problem, you are seeking to heighten your level of arrousal, first in p, then escorts, then you'll go to the next level because you need to keep getting more high, and if you are not careful you could end up in some serious trouble, you could get a disease, you could get arrested, you could get your ass kicked by some crazy dude stalking the escort, but the biggest reason to quit is because if you don't get this under control something really really bad will happen, its just a question of if but a question of when!
     
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  4. Apr 10, 2018 #4
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    sorry, not a question of if but a question of when,,,you are lucky to have this website for support because you absolutely have to quit
     
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