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Peeking stop a flatline but it is a relapse.

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Achille, Apr 9, 2019.

  1. Achille

    Achille Fapstronaut

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    I relapse alway on five to ten day of reboot. I believe about flatline. It work so: i start to fantasize about my ex girlfriend or girls who like to me. And more fantasies I have more I believe to be impotent. So it is strong the urge to peek then to relapse. I notice peek stops flatline (if i can consider this a flatline no?) and this is a malicious relapse.
     
  2. maz20

    maz20 Fapstronaut

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    Unless you're having regular actual sex, IMO what we call "flatline" is simply just one's "contention" (for lack of a better word) with the nature of "not receiving sexual gratification". Not saying people shouldn't receive sexual gratification, but it should be via actual sex not 'fap/PMO.

    In other words, NoFap is simply the natural thing that happens when you don't receive regular and/or actual sex, and "flatline" is what happens when you.....well, (also) for lack of a better word, "lose respect" for this completely natural phenomenon.

    A funny analogy might be to think of it as a "comedy roast" ---> "flatline" is when the guy in the hotseat can no longer well or "gracefully" (also for lack of a better word!) take/accept the presented quips. When this happens NoFap users might sometimes either "relapse" (to relieve sexual frustration) or "flatline" (forcibly or somehow otherwise "bury/suppress" anything libido-related that's creating such tension in the first place). Both actions (not to sound too harsh!!! but...) are IMO a complete disrespect for how nature is supposed to work (and what sexual frustration is supposed to compel one to do ----> have actual sex!)
     
    Last edited: Apr 9, 2019
  3. alextena

    alextena Fapstronaut

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    Maybe you have to rethink the underlying reasons for NOfap in order to enforce them
     
  4. kropo82

    kropo82 Fapstronaut

  5. Achille

    Achille Fapstronaut

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    Whats make me angry is not to be able to MO without P because i am sure to be able to feel better without P. But Mastrubation is linked strong with P. And I cannot split the two thing.
     
  6. maz20

    maz20 Fapstronaut

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    Viewing P while abstaining from MO is basically making a mental mockery out of NoFap. It's like teasing your brain "Haha! Look I can get all this stimulus just from viewing things online!" This is what accelerates one to either "relapse" (relieve sexual frustration) or partake in "flatlining" (try to bury/suppress libido and anything libido-related that's causing this tension instead).
     

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