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PIED - 27 years

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by vitor_s, Feb 28, 2021.

  1. Feb 28, 2021 #1
    vitor_s

    vitor_s New Fapstronaut

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    Hey guys,

    I have just got home after going soft on sex for probably the 20th time.
    I discovered nofap/ybop about 2 years ago and I have been trying to cured my PIED since.
    In a nutshell, I have been ejaculating alone with very weak erections. During sex, the touch of the girls is the same thing as nothing. I am only able to get an erection with oral sex, but I am not able to maintain erection for much longer (I lose erection without stimulation in a few seconds).
    I cannot get an erection by kissing or cuddling.
    When I hook up with a girl, the stage of going to have sex makes me feel fear and not horny. It feels terrible, guys.

    I am writing because I am totally desperate. I want to know if someone passed through something similar and if got recovered.


    Thank you in advance!
     
    vitor_s, Feb 28, 2021
    vitor_s, Feb 28, 2021
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  2. Feb 28, 2021 #2
    southin

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    Have you ever actually tried hardmode? Also, just out of curiosity is it only Oral sex that gets you hard? Do you have morning wood? Have you tried V as a short term fix?

    I feel like you have more performance anxiety than PIED. I won't say PIED is not there at all, but performance anxiety is definitely a huge part of it.
     
    southin, Feb 28, 2021
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  3. Mar 6, 2021 #3
    vercent99

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    if you get morning woods while at the same time having those issues you mentioned, it means your body is healthy but your mind is not. (either anxiety induced erectile dysfunction, or porn induced erectile dysfunction)

    so let us know if you have morning woods, and if you are currently watching porn, are your erections weak or normal during watching porn?

    then we can further investigate what to do
     
    vercent99, Mar 6, 2021
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  4. Mar 6, 2021 #4
    Randombro

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    Hardmode: NoFap, No Porn, No Sex, No Fantasy min. 90 days

    Build confidence and self-esteem so you have no anxiety anymore before you have sex.

    Fake it until you make it: Say every day „I can get a erection, I can satisfy my girl, I can perform“

    Train hard and ear healthy. Lose weight if you are overweight. Supplement zinc.
    This will boost your testosterone.

    This would be my suggestion based on your informations what you gave us.
     
    Last edited: Mar 6, 2021
    Randombro, Mar 6, 2021
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