PIED Bye Bye

I started NoFap because of my PIED and DE. 27 years old discovered Internet P and M in my pre teens. Was PMOing least once a day for over the past 15 years or so.

I don't know if I'm lucky or what but I haven't had many of the things described. Such as being introvert or depression ect. I've been with a lot of girls, always look people in the eyes, successful, able to talk to anyone ect. I've just always had a 50-50 chance probably more like 80-20 chance of getting an erection. I've had girls say "what are you gay?" Things like that.

So today is technically day 21 but I have news. On day 19 I ended up getting an HJ and was about to finish in like 5 mins. Sensitivity is way up. A few hours ago I had sex and was about to hold an erection the whole time. I didn't finish. Now it wasn't 100% but I would say it was a good 85%. On day 19 I would say it was around 70%.

Now I am still going to continue on at least a 90 day quest, but I haven't used P or M in these 21 days. I have no urge to do it either. I wake up with really strong urges not to use P and M but just to hook up.

Either way I am putting this down in my book as a major success. Being able to get an erection, hold it, even when I had to go get a condom, and the entire time is awesome.

I think it helps by explaining it to them what is going on so I don't put so much pressure on myself to perform and disappoint them if it doesn't happen.

Thanks for all the support and the community. You can over come this addiction.

 

Well I'd say remember it's natural to hit on girls and flirt and it's okay to as long it stays like while you have a partner just flirting.

 

I'm telling you it's devastating. The girl I loved last year blamed herself for it and then we got in a fight and she threw it in my face saying that if I really loved her I'd be able to rise to the occasion hit me like a ton of bricks. I sibce explained to her what's happening with me and she fully understands.

I found its far easier for me to quit doing PMO when I have a reason such as the girl I love. I have no desire to PMO.