PIED cured after 8 months!

Damn, you went through a really hard time there. But you kept going no matter what. And you prevailed.
Thank you for telling your story man.
This is a very inspiring story for me.

 

I had those too plus insomnia and ectopic beats among others. I still have to some degree.

Keep it up!

 

Hey guys , is imagining about having sex with a real girl also prohibited? Doing so , gives me erections , so should I abstain from that too?

 

This guy salutes you...

 

Yes, you should avoid that.

 

It's probably too soon to say, but my PAWS cycles seem to be shortening, e.g. first lasted one month, second three weeks and third two weeks. But I know this shit can strike back anytime for two years.

 

Man ,your story touch my heart.I am in the same age as you and I started the Nofap in 29 April 2019.
Same like you I am still facing PAWS and I felt little OK after 7 months .I was in flatline whole time and i only now how horrible withdrawal symptoms was for me.Keep going Man.
I am not sure about you ,but after i feel little good about 1 month ,My mind again tricking me to go back to old habit but i always remembered why I have stated in first place and what I have been through, restrict me to go back to that habit. Be alert and be happy....

 

I Found it odd for me to see a post that u havent got any sex before mariage. but when i see ur a Muslim then Alhamdulillah u can surpass this

i got this PIED too but not maried yet tho

and one my biggest motivation right know is i want to healed form PIED before i get married (even tho i dont have any gf yet), i knew too that the 90 days isnt working for me ive been there (90day of nofap)

i aim for at least 9 month of hard mode for the healing

please make dua for me too so i can forever leave porn, healed from PIED or porn addiction and have a good spouse

 

my goal is forever no porn of course, 9 months is a minimum for me before marriage, i want to heal from PIED first then get married insya Allah

Thank you bro,
i hoped that Allah SWT give you everlasting happiness for your family both in this dunya and the akhirah.. aamiiiin

 

Wow man this story is inspiring as hell

 

It is an inspiring story and I hope things continue to go well in the future too!
I am more concerned about never getting married (or laid for that matter), despite almost two years of being on hard-mode at this point. I have developed a lot as a person during this time for sure (and it still gets better by every way) but the concerns about my previous inexperience is what mostly still prevents me from taking action and putting me in situations that might lead to a longer (or shorter) romance.
It might sound ridiculous but I am afraid that my previous inexperience is going to be a huge turn-off and kill the mood, even if I am frank and confident about it. Even if I would get that far, I probably wouldn't be able to perform that time as well (due to my inexperience) and might get judged and ridiculed because of it. Mostly because of the plentiful experience that most dudes my age seem to have in this field. It makes me feel less of a man, despite my physique, self-control and success in other areas of life.
I am many times wonder if I am ever going to even have a sexual-life or if I might be better off just giving up on it altogether. But, parts of me don't want to give up since that's not my character and I have overcome challenges before. Although, this challenge feels a bit tougher since there are still many subconscious demons left that fade away very slowly.

 

Thanks for the advice!
Although I am single still, I actually don't have much problem with it these days since I have worked a lot on myself and feel good not being bonded to anyone. Although I would like to get laid sometime (preferably not during a ONS), it isn't something I stress about these days because I know the more you stress about it, the less of it you will get.
I do just feel sorry for all needy dudes out there who jump into relationships just because they feel lonely, incomplete or want to prove for others how successful, happy and great they are. Not only do they end up settling for a mediocre woman and relationship, they have also been so busy seeking approval and status from others that they haven't done much internal work on themselves and those cracks in the pretty façade become more evident for every year, despite what their Facebook-statuses tell (another reason as to why I rarely visit Facebook these days). It is sad to think that they most likely will continue along the same path and end up with a life of mediocrity, misery, envy, and unfulfilled dreams, ambitions and aspirations. Just for the sake of others' approval and not sticking out too much from the mediocre crowd.

A few such skills they have totally neglected is that of self-control, limitation and self-discipline which alone can totally transform your own life if you put in the hard-work necessary to develop them. The past two years of hard-mode has done wonders for my personal development as I turned from a needy, anxious, semi-depressed and reactive child to a confident, satisfied and grown up man. I have matured a lot during that time while learning and acquiring plenty of new skills and interests along the way, some of them which are now leading up to the starting of my future business-adventures and future successes for sure.
I say "successes for sure" because I know it. I do have a natural winner-mentality and that hasn't leached out of me, despite having some rough setbacks along the way which have tuned it down at times.