[PIED] having a semi-boner while watching a woman = relapse ?

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  1. FrenchWinner

    FrenchWinner Fapstronaut

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    I'm a 19 year old guy suffering from PIED and i am on a 43 days hardmode streak.
    During my breakfast i was waiting for receiving my food in the cafateria and a woman walked in my direction, looking me and making a gorgeous smile she was lefting the cafeteria. I got a semi boner so it is hopeful for my reboot but does it slow it down ? Should i avoid any eye contact to fast my reboot ? Is is a relapse ?
     
  2. It is a normal reaction. Humans are sexual beings. A relapse is if you voluntarily do the thing you’re swearing off (porn only, porn and jerking, etc)
     
  3. Kenzi

    Kenzi Fapstronaut

    Or psubs
     
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  4. Omnitron310

    Omnitron310 Fapstronaut

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    Yeah, no way you can treat every single sexual thought or response as a relapse. It’s only a relapse if you actively indulge your temptation to give in to addictive behaviour. Just view it as a sign that you’re on the right track.
     
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  5. ukbritishbloke

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    Seems like a good sign to me.
     
  6. FrenchWinner

    FrenchWinner Fapstronaut

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    It is a good sign indeed but i had this kind of boner before i got my first sexual with which i failed to have sex 2 mounths ago that's how i discovered Nofap (i think i have PIED but Performance anxiety was a HUGE factor in my failure plus the fact that the girl humiliated me...).
     
  7. Talked about this subject just today with my therapist. I was asking him why I seem to be noticing women's beauty a lot more instead of less now that I'm off porn. We stated it's normal to notice a woman's beauty. What you do with the thought afterwards is the important thing. Also my thoughts haven't been straight to having sex with the women I see. That's a huge improvement!
     
  8. phwrancesco

    phwrancesco Fapstronaut

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    how can this be relapse?
     
  9. steveo2312

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    You got a boner looking at a real woman....thats good isnt it?
     
  10. Hitto

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    That's a great sign after 11 months hard mode from I have gotten semi boners when talking to women or anything like that yet. But now I'm almost getting raging wood in morning hours and now when I'm talking to our near a women I can just sense how my body and penis start tingling when I'm around attractive women that's an amazing sign for me it won't happen all over night but that's something I haven't felt in almost 4 yrs
     

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