I am 46, have an SO and have been living with PIED for at least 4-5 years. It’s putting a strain on my relationship as I am unable to sustain an erection in PIV for longer than 5-10mins. By comparison, I can edge to porn for over an hour. Morning erections are still really hard, I’d say even for my age. However, when it comes to the real thing, I become a massive fail. And the memory of that fail becomes anxiety that leads to yet another fail, a vicious cycle. That failure then leads me to porn as a coping mechanism. I’m a gym fit 40 year old, no health issue, good cardiovascular performance. I do smoke but I’m suspecting my ED is PI and not a physiological cause because of the consistency of morning wood. The one thing that’s worrying me recently is that I’m finding my penis numb. I’m hoping this community will teach me how to get through a Reboot.