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PLEASE HELP! Freaking out!

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by ss91, Dec 4, 2014.

  1. ss91

    ss91 Fapstronaut

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    So i've been no PMO'ing for 3 weeks. although in between I did glance at some P and edged once. however for the most part I stayed away.

    but today after 3 weeks i ended up PMOing. and the scary part is I literally O'ed in 2min!!!?? i was realllly sensitive.

    this never happened to me before.

    has this happened to any one during their reboot?

    im going to restart my counter but this really freaked me out.
     
  2. Monster Carrot

    Monster Carrot Fapstronaut

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    It's a good sign. Try again!!!
     
  3. NoBrainer

    NoBrainer Distinguished Fapstronaut

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    It's fine dude. Due to not touching your penis as much, it's bound to become more sensitive. Keep going!
     
  4. I am sure you mean he must try again going for three weeks, not try again to PMO )))))))))))
     
  5. Warrior01

    Warrior01 Fapstronaut

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    I have a question too, Before starting to NOFap I had some issues with ED(porn related), but does this means that after quitting PMO one will have issues with PE? :confused:
     
  6. Karegador

    Karegador Fapstronaut

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    Relax. You are totally fine. The sex industry tells us that women want men to last a long time, even up to an hour or more. This is not true at all.

    While there may be women who like that, I can't be certain that there aren't, most women will tell you that after 10 or 15 minutes they start to chafe and hurt. Hell the first time I had sex we were at it for three hours and I still hadn't come. By then she was raw and so was I. It was not fun.

    Now that you are abstaining you are undoing years of damage to your penis that has rendered it rather numb, which is why you lasted longer when you were PMOing all the time. So your experience is something to be proud of. You lasted 2 minutes but that was while masturbating which skews the result because you are a chronic masturbator.

    I say this because, at the height of your PMO addiction you had, without realizing it, learned to grip yourself hard and harder, as a means to compensate for you penis becoming numb. Now that you are healing it is more sensitive but you still have that learned grip. Thus you last under ten minutes.

    I hope I wrote this in a clear enough way that it is helpful.
     
  7. Karegador

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    I have not had that problem. But after I had been PMO free for two weeks(14 days) I came during sex for the first time. I was really quick, I'd say 2 or 3 minutes, and came before my wife. Luckily I stayed hard long enough to get the job done and get her off.

    After that I've lasted between the normal 10 to 15 minutes. So you might PE or cum in under 10 minutes the first time you have sex after abstaining for a while but you should be fine.

    It is all about your body getting used to the new level of sensitivity. For me it took the first experience for my body to adjust but it is conceivable that someone else might take more time. But either way, in the end, you should be fine.
     
    Last edited: Dec 5, 2014

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