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Please help if somebody can :'(

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Kazmi, Jul 24, 2017.

  1. Kazmi

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    Am I lost? Idk myself. I am a male, 21years old. Got sick of masterbation and porn. Its my first day today with this community. Everything was pretty fine and I never noticed that I started of this PMO issue. My erections are great with porn but whenever I go with the real girl this shit doesn't cooperate with me. I coluldn't share this issue with anyone in a fear that I might become a subject of joke. I don't know what to do please help.!!:'( :'(
     
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  2. Bel

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    It is absolutely true. Just surf these forums you'll see how scarily familiar a lot of the threads are to what happens in your own life.
     
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  3. Welcome man, you have the curse of PIED. Erectile dysfunction because of porn. I currently have it and so do most of the guys on here. It's time to quit porn.
     
  4. Drew140

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    Do you have death grip?
     
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  5. Kazmi

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    Yes I realize it. I thought I was the only one in the world having this issue. You know how humiliating this can be in front of the real women in bed. Thanks for support. Hope we'd be fine someday.
     
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  6. Kazmi

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    what do you mean by the term death grip?
     
  7. Man, you could be me. For the longest time I thought I was the only young guy on Earth with ED and yes, I unfortunately do know how humiliating it is. That's why I'm committing to ending my addiction and returning to normal.
     
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  8. Kazmi

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    Best of luck bruh. Hope we'll be in touch in this mission of recovery.
     
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  9. Message me anytime. The more help we have the better.
     
  10. Drew140

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    Death grip means you can only orgasm via masturbation
     
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  11. Kazmi

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    Yeah thats right you can say so. Plus I never had a wet dream my entire life. God knows why so..
     
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  12. Bel

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    My PA just had his first wet dreams very recently one probably around day 70 and then day 80. The first he couldn't recall anything about other than physical evidence, the second one involved a dream dealing with me and it wasn't even some whacked out crazy porn scenario. It was awesome to hear him talk about and get excited over the normal great parts about just being with someone.
    As far as death grip for my PA it also involved a hold so strong it looked like he was trying to maim himself. I literally was like wtf dude, it hurt me to have to witness it. :(
     
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  13. Drew140

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    Well you can fix it but you have to reboot.
     
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  14. Drew140

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    It's gonna hurt bad.
     
  15. Drew140

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    They make skin cream to heal that issue
     
  16. Drew140

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    Syed is your dick sore?
     
  17. SuperFan

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    The struggle is real.
     
  18. No, that's not it. The "grip" is the force and pressure you apply to your penis during masturbation. This which causes the "death" or desensitization of the penis. Although you are trying to mimic intercourse by masturbating, having such a vice-like grip on your dick is unnatural.

    Edging (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Orgasm_control#In_masturbation) can make this even more serious. :eek: If you do sometimes masturbate during your recovery journey, stop using the death grip. Try to use a much lighter touch @_Syed.
     
  19. Kazmi

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    I ain't gonna masterbate bru. I hate P and M more than the joker hates batman. I am serious. Just hate it.
     
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  20. That's good! You asked about death grip and were given a misleading answer but it's important we are correctly informed.
     
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