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Pap9

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I started masturbating to porn when i was 15, i'm now 18 and i work as a programer from my house (so i have a lot of tentation), i masturbated at least 3 times everyday in my free time, always watching porn but i always wanted more and it didn't even satisfied me anymore, i started with normal porn and over the years i got into really hardcore, dark, freaky shit and normal porn didn't turn me on anymore, i'm a very "politically correct" person so i freaked out about the shit i was watching and masturbating to, so i decided to stop 10 days ago and i haven't masturbated or watched porn since then, but it's getting difficult. My question is, could i masturbate or maybe do some edging watching soft porn, like Instagram girls half naked or Playboy magazines? I'm not going back to hardcore porn but i'd like to jack off and maybe ejaculate to softcore stuff. Will that affect my reboot?
 
Pap9 said:
I started masturbating to porn when i was 15, i'm now 18 and i work as a programer from my house (so i have a lot of tentation), i masturbated at least 3 times everyday in my free time, always watching porn but i always wanted more and it didn't even satisfied me anymore, i started with normal porn and over the years i got into really hardcore, dark, freaky shit and normal porn didn't turn me on anymore, i'm a very "politically correct" person so i freaked out about the shit i was watching and masturbating to, so i decided to stop 10 days ago and i haven't masturbated or watched porn since then, but it's getting difficult. My question is, could i masturbate or maybe do some edging watching soft porn, like Instagram girls half naked or Playboy magazines? I'm not going back to hardcore porn but i'd like to jack off and maybe ejaculate to softcore stuff. Will that affect my reboot?
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The tough answer or advice is to avoid any porn and let your body and mind reboot without MO. You're doing well so build on it and get free
 
Pap9 said:
I started masturbating to porn when i was 15, i'm now 18 and i work as a programer from my house (so i have a lot of tentation), i masturbated at least 3 times everyday in my free time, always watching porn but i always wanted more and it didn't even satisfied me anymore, i started with normal porn and over the years i got into really hardcore, dark, freaky shit and normal porn didn't turn me on anymore, i'm a very "politically correct" person so i freaked out about the shit i was watching and masturbating to, so i decided to stop 10 days ago and i haven't masturbated or watched porn since then, but it's getting difficult. My question is, could i masturbate or maybe do some edging watching soft porn, like Instagram girls half naked or Playboy magazines? I'm not going back to hardcore porn but i'd like to jack off and maybe ejaculate to softcore stuff. Will that affect my reboot?
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If you're trying to reboot, you have to completely abstain from porn and masturbation. You can have whatever goal you want, but you should abstain until you feel totally recovered. I wish you the best of luck, man! :emoji_fingers_crossed::emoji_muscle::emoji_punch:
 
Thank you for the advice, guys. But it's getting really complicated because my job obligates me to stay inside my house, i can be weeks without going outside and having contact with other people besides my family, so it's constant tentation, this 10 days were really difficult for me but i'm gonna try and do my best
 
Pap9 said:
Thank you for the advice, guys. But it's getting really complicated because my job obligates me to stay inside my house, i can be weeks without going outside and having contact with other people besides my family, so it's constant tentation, this 10 days were really difficult for me but i'm gonna try and do my best
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Porn filters are a big help! If you install them, they would block out temptation.
 
Pap9 said:
Thank you for the advice, guys. But it's getting really complicated because my job obligates me to stay inside my house, i can be weeks without going outside and having contact with other people besides my family, so it's constant tentation, this 10 days were really difficult for me but i'm gonna try and do my best
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Start brainstorming with healthy goals on what you can do in the house. Computer programmers do this all the time, so perhaps they also go through this too. Ask them on how they avoid temptations by working in the house.
 
Yes, i already bought some gym equipment and i'm gonna try and go out more. But, the part that is really hard for me to quit is masturbation, i'm decided to quit porn but masturbation is so damn hard for me, maybe if i try to do edging and with only my imagination (even tho is crap) it could release some of my stress?
 
Pap9 said:
Yes, i already bought some gym equipment and i'm gonna try and go out more. But, the part that is really hard for me to quit is masturbation, i'm decided to quit porn but masturbation is so damn hard for me, maybe if i try to do edging and with only my imagination (even tho is crap) it could release some of my stress?
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No man, don't do edging because that would technically count as a relapse. You gotta distract your mind. Edging would also be horrible for your rebooting process. Yes, women are extremely attractiveness and arousing individuals, but you gotta stay strong. You gotta learn to kill your triggers and urges. Keeping yourself constantly busy would be your best bet, especially when your in your house.
 
Nope, bro. Addiction is addiction. The only way to control is to completely stop it. Edging would eventually cause you to ejaculate at a point.

It's hard. That's why there are lot of men here struggling with this.

There are some posts detailing the benefits of not doing PMO. My opinion is that the benefits are way more worth than the addiction of doing the PMO.

Personally, I'm only going to do natural sex with a girl after mine is all healed.
 
Arkangel Colon said:
No man, don't do edging because that would technically count as a relapse. All I can tell you is to distract your mind. Edging would also be horrible for your rebooting process. Yes, women are extremely attractiveness and arousing individuals, but you gotta stay strong. You gotta learn to kill your triggers and urges. Keeping yourself constantly busy would be your best bet, especially when your in your house.
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Thanks guys, you really motivated me, it's gonna be difficult but i'm gonna stay away from all sexual pleasure for a long time until i feel better with myself, after that i'm gonna search for a girlfriend
 
seaguy44 said:
Nope, bro. Addiction is addiction. The only way to control is to completely stop it. Edging would eventually cause you to ejaculate at a point.

It's hard. That's why there are lot of men here struggling with this.

There are some posts detailing the benefits of not doing PMO. My opinion is that the benefits are way more worth than the addiction of doing the PMO.

Personally, I'm only going to do natural sex with a girl after mine is all healed.
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When I recover completely, I'll just completely abstain from sex. I'm a virgin, and I wanna keep it that way.
 
Pap9 said:
Thanks guys, you really motivated me, it's gonna be difficult but i'm gonna stay away from all sexual pleasure for a long time until i feel better with myself, after that i'm gonna search for a girlfriend
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Right on dude! Good luck, and I wish you the best! :)
 
Pap9 said:
Thanks guys, you really motivated me, it's gonna be difficult but i'm gonna stay away from all sexual pleasure for a long time until i feel better with myself, after that i'm gonna search for a girlfriend
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That's a great plan! That's what I'm doing now. Good Luck!
 
seaguy44 said:
Go for it, bro!

There are many many benefits of semen retention for life.
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Well it wouldn't be for life, but it would hopefully be for several years. I wanna have kids, but through artificial insemination.
 
@Pap9 Another way to kill your urges is to exercise the hardest you possibly can. What happens is that endorphins release from your brain, which makes your body feel just as good as when you have sex.
 
Thanks for the advice guys, i definitely want an active sex life but my head and life is really messed up now, so i'll wait at least 1 year to start searching for a girlfriend
 
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