Please help me overcoming my fetish!

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  1. DanielHanes

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    Hi everyone,

    I have been watching this fetishporn video's for over 9 years now.
    It definitly fucked up my brain and my life.
    It all started with an innocent foot fetish.
    But after 9 years of watching porn daily it has developped into other crazy kinks like: forced bi, cuckold, being a slave etc.

    I need to get rid of all these kinks. Can anyone please help me!
     
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  2. IGY

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    The simple answer, Daniel, is to stop all porn and stop masturbating for as many months as it takes. The further you go (without relapses), your fetishes will fade and you will reboot your brain to "factory settings". Good luck buddy. :)
     
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  4. DanielHanes

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    Thanks guys!
    When I think about my kinks it also turns me on.
    Do you guys have any tips on how to resist such temptations?
     
  5. Marigny

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    Well, resisting to such temptation (I mean when it's about fetishs) is a long-term learning.
    When a fantasm, a picture, a situation, even a word come into your mind, try to escape it. Try to think about something different.
    Try to think the less possible about your fantasies.

    But sometimes they come nevertheless. You shall say yourself that its just for a time, then they will disapear for a time.

    I saw you were christian, as a catholic, I have a list of verses from the Bible (I can relate them to these fetishs) that I read every day to keep courage and to refuse to give in.
    I also fast one day every week. Abstaining from food during 24h really cut every temptation, I really feel free when I do it and sometimes the only thing I wait in the week is the day of fasting to be free from currents temptations.
    I also pray a lot, the rosary is a very powerfull prayer to overcome temptation. I was used to pray it every day.
     
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  6. DanielHanes

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    I was raised my extremely atheist parents. I always thought religion was for dumb people. In the past I aways thought I was alone in the world. A few months ago I started reading the Bible. I don't know I did it, but it felt like the right thing to do. Praying, meditating and reading the Bible really helps me to controle myself.

    Can you please help me finding those verses? I need more structure for myself in the morning and I think that repeating those verses can be very good for me.
     
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  7. Marigny

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    I was raised in an atheist world to, believing that science demonstrate the inexistence of God, but things are more complicate than that.

    I send it to you by personal message
     
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  8. DanielHanes

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    Thank you so much. This is really useful information. I think trauma and years of humiliating porn video's did affect my self worth. I already meditate daily and that really helps a lot. Do you have any tips on how to improve my self worth in general?
     
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