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please help me

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by stuckdem, Oct 10, 2018.

  1. Oct 10, 2018 #1
    stuckdem

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    Hello everyone,
    I did not masturbate for 28 days. Now I am sexually excited and can not control myself anymore.
    masturbating is a nightmare for me. the ugliest moments for me are those after masturbating; I find myself starting again from 0, and all these efforts I made are just gone. this feeling kills me from within and causes me a deep depression.
    In the last days, I was full of energy and socially good, I was open up to girls.
    Now I'm two inches off masturbating and I'm so scared of it. my body enjoyed it and that weakens my soul.
    I am writing this in the hope that it may encourage me to continue to persist. please encourage me with some ideas.
     
    stuckdem, Oct 10, 2018
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  2. Oct 10, 2018 #2
    The Lone Ranger

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    Think about the trade! You have PMO in one hand (quick fix, feel good for a couple of minutes) and your promises and reasons to stay away in the other hand. You can’t have both. Do you truly want to do that trade?

    If it’s not totally pouring outside and you aren’t stuck somewhere - go out side! Breath. You will still have both options when you come back inside. Just wait for 15 minutes!
     
    The Lone Ranger, Oct 10, 2018
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  3. Oct 10, 2018 #3
    stuckdem

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    thank you brother, I appreciate your answer.
    I really want to stop this matter, but I'm weak against the pleasures of my body.
    I will try your advice
    thanks again
     
    stuckdem, Oct 10, 2018
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  4. Oct 10, 2018 #4
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    Dude, you can do this. Enjoy life. Do some meditation, go to friends, go to the gym or take a cold shower. There is more dan P and M. Believe me.
     
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  5. Oct 13, 2018 #5
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    The efforts are not just gone. The counter is deceptive in that way. You are loosing one day. Not 28 days. It's just dangerous because you are triggwring an old addiction and have a high likelihood that you will start the habit of binging on p and m for the next 30 days or so which messes up your brain.
     
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  6. Oct 15, 2018 #6
    stuckdem

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    thank you brother for the encouragement
     
    stuckdem, Oct 15, 2018
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  7. Oct 15, 2018 #7
    stuckdem

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    thanks bro. really encouraging
     
    stuckdem, Oct 15, 2018
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  8. Oct 15, 2018 #8
    Napav

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    One quote : "When you want to quit, remember why you started!"
     
    Napav, Oct 15, 2018
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