Please help me

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Mr.gentleman, Apr 23, 2020.

  1. Mr.gentleman

    Mr.gentleman Fapstronaut

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    Somebody please help me. I have been a slave of masturbation. I am not Addicted to porn. But masturbation. Edging and boredom is my main problem. I feel the urge very quickly. Now I feel like a piece of sh¡t. Can anybody help me to get out this!!!
     
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  2. Emileo Delcarme

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    Hi buddy.

    The only person who can help you is you. No one gives a f about you. No one cares if you fap or not. Everyone in today's age is in a competition with their neighbors. Secretely they want you to fail at life. That will make them feel better. We want to succeed because we envy our neighbors.
    I've realised that life is useless. There's no point in gaining anything in life if your neighbor doesn't truelly wish you well. If he doesn't celebrate your achievements with you what's the point of achieving anything.
    Self growth is the only thing that's worth achieving in this life. Fighting your demons, being comfortable with yourself, growing close to God, these are things that's worth achieving.

    I too have been a slave to pmo and edging for a couple of years. But I have made the decision to achieve self growth.

    I really wish you the best on your journey brother. Don't wait for others to help you. Learn to help yourself.
     
  3. Mr.gentleman

    Mr.gentleman Fapstronaut

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    Thanks for the motivation..... I haven't really slept for 2 days from now my 1st motivator will be me
     
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  4. Mr.gentleman

    Mr.gentleman Fapstronaut

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    Sure brother
     
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  5. Emileo Delcarme

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    I was 40 days into pmo when my life completely turned around.

    My mother had been sick for months with stage 4 cancer. Last week Tuesday I lost my mother. She died in my arms. I felt her last hearbeat and saw her take her last breath. I was just about to leave for work when this happened. Couple of hours later I lost my job. Couple of hours later I lost my dog who I thought would comfort me through this time. I might lose my apartment in the next month as well. I'm literally losing everything that is important to me. But one thing I do have left is my Bible and God.

    I stopped pmo because I wanted to change my life and give my mom the things I had always promised her. I took time off work to take care of my mother because she was bed ridden and slowly deteriorating. I spent three weeks nursing her and trying to keep her alive.

    Pmo was my escape when life wasn't going my way. But I can't escape anymore. I'm alone in this world. Nobody is going to help me achieve what I've always wanted. And that is self growth.

    I'm 48 days pmo free and don't plan on returning to my old self. I'm going to be pmo free for life.

    I hope my story can help motivate you to overcoming obstacles that you may be facing.

    Good luck brother.
     
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  6. Hey, welcome to the NoFap community
    : )

    It's nice to see you here fighting the good fight alongside us!
    First let me go ahead and drop some helpful links for you:
    Getting Started Guide / Forum Rules / How to Use the NoFap forums/ Glossary/ NoFap Panic button/
    Set up your day counter /
    Rebooting Resources/
    Accountability groups (new!)/
    About NoFap/ Support NoFap

    Here is just some advice:
    First and foremost please take a careful look at each section in the forum, there may be something(s) you will find to be of big help to you.

    Secondly I advise you to be active on your profile(as there a few active people in the profile section). Please start by choosing an avatar and then begin posting frequent status posts to show you're active and needing support/encouragement.
    The forum has got a neat little feature that shows freshly posted statuses for all users to see.
    People will find your profile and give you support.

    There’s a portion of people who love communicating in the profile section..(it should be and is )mostly spportive talk but it doesn't hurt to deviate from supportive conversations. It would be great to have you join in and become part of the team!
    We support others in the threads, profile posts, and journals/reboot logs.
    Once you receive some support, please be sure and be grateful to the member for the help/support you received and consider giving some in return to anyone you wish.

    Thirdly, you should highly consider creating a public journal/reboot log (in the appropriate sectionfor you) to write about your days in depth for us members to follow along on your journey and offer support to you on.

    Please start your journal in the correct section and with that, also try your best to post in the correct sections as it is mandatory and would be helpful to the mods who organize the forum. : )

    Last but not least: Good luck on your journey here, make sure to really give it a try with all your heart!
     
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  7. Welcome to the community :) anything we can assist you with let us know, best of luck on your journey
     
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  8. Hello there... :)
    Welcome to the community!
     
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  9. Mr.gentleman

    Mr.gentleman Fapstronaut

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    Hi Nice to be here with you
     
  10. Mr.gentleman

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    I would love to
     

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