Please help

Discussion in 'Rebooting in a Relationship' started by MMM9, Dec 30, 2017.

  1. MMM9

    MMM9 New Fapstronaut

    Hello guys!I started masturbating 5 years ago and i got used to masturbating really hard and quick (hard grip,3 minutes max and im done).I got addicted so i masturbated 2 or 3 times to day to porn.Recently i found a gf and i started noticing that sometimes my erection doesnt last long and i got worried.I got rid of porn and masturbation for a few days and it was better the next time we saw.Few days ago we tried having sex for the first time and i couldnt even get close to orgasm.I couldnt even feel much pleasure and now im worried a lot.When she gives me HJ or BJ i cant feel a lot too.Now I found this forum and my question is: Can i continue trying sex with my gf and give up on porn and masturbation or do I have to give up on everything for some time (cause i dont want to tell this to my gf).Thanks in advance!
  2. Peace Seeker

    Peace Seeker Fapstronaut

    Give up on everything for some time. Sensations will take a while to come back. Be patient. I suggest be transparent about everything. Hiding things will hurt you in some way or the other. In the meantime you can practice FANOS with her.
  3. malwarebytes

    malwarebytes Fapstronaut

    for me using a different kind of condome (maybe its more expensive) made me feel more. also if you stop watching porn and stop masturbate then it should be a lot better in no time! good luck! =)
  4. The Wrestler

    The Wrestler Fapstronaut

    How long have you been going out?
    It definitely is terrifying to talk to your girlfriend about it, but this is also a really great opportunity to build a stronger connection with her!

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