Please Join me!!!!!

Keep fighting bro, even if you relapse we never judge anyone (though I know you won't relapse anymore, you are a fighter)

 

Day 72

 

Since you have the will then you can. You will, I'm sure, just dont give up. I suggest you start reading a book called "your brain on porn"

 

Thank you Runner87 Bro! Today feels good, like a new beginning, and I feel like with each others support we can sail through this!! 89 more days to go and hopefully much more than that!! Gonna figure out my shit!

 

And yeah! Thanks for the recommendation

 

I've tried that route of cutting out P and allowing myself M. For me, I found that it wasn't successful. The issue was that I continued to use the P images and scenes in my head as fantasy fodder while I would M. In essence, I was just substituting one for the other. I think it could be a good start though. Certainly cutting out P is a step in the right direction, but then I would encourage you to work hard at cutting out the M as well. It's about progress. Not perfection.

 

Man.... 489 days??? You are a real hero.

And by the way, do some people react bad to Christian perspective?

 

RA, nobody has reacted negatively yet, but I am just trying to be sensitive to the guidelines of the site and those that might take offense just knowing it's from a Christian perspective. Too many well intentioned Christians that don't fully understand addiction or what is involved with recovery and think that you just need to pray more or read your Bible more to overcome this. Not saying those things are bad but it takes so much more than that. I'm sensitive to the damage that some Christians do with that uninformed approach and so perhaps I'm being overly sensitive regarding that and trying not to offend anyone by putting that out there. Make sense?

 

Pretty much. Of course some Christians choose 'prayer over action'. I mean, they would think that they don't need to try to overcome the addiction themselves because they will be protected by God. It's a bit irresponsible.

 

Sorry, @Ted Martin, but -- although I am sure this was not your intention -- your post with a link to what is effectively a commercial site violated the official NoFap.com rules, which prohibit advertising.

(In addition, according to those same rules, posts of a such a religious nature should be restricted to one's own journal-thread.)

 

Day 73

I hope that all the missing mates are doing good.

 

Day 2... Small step though, towards a bigger goal!

 

Not me

 

That's nice man. People should be free in their faith and respect others' beliefs.

 

My apologies Yesodi. You are correct, that was not my intention. I will try to be more careful regarding that.

 

Day 74

Keep fighting guys. Our friends will come back oneday

 

You are a fighter bro, we are stronger together.

 

Awesome men ! I've been spending a lot of time with the Heirs of the Sun group I joined a month or so ago. Glad 2 c this thread still kicking ass all the way!!!!!

 

If you mean me yes!

 

....... take action! Relapse sucks. Evaluate it. Why ? What triggered u ? What could u have done differently? Use it as a learning tool. You know u don't have 2 relapse for 30 whole days if u decide. You don't have 2 relapse for 90 days or even ever again. It's up 2 u.