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Discussion in 'Self Improvement' started by Anubhav140, May 23, 2020 at 3:58 AM.

  1. Anubhav140

    Anubhav140 Fapstronaut

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    hey guys,
    i joined this site around 4 to 5 months ago and i was trying to get out of the habit of masturbation before on my own , all i wanted was to get out of this habit of masturbation which would ruin my life one day totally .

    i always tried not to give up every time i relapsed but now when i relapsed again i am really feeling down and i am questioning my potential if i will be able to get out of this trap or not. i always relapse after 10 to 11 days on an average 1 year back i used to do it twice a day on an average . i am feeling really depressed and sad cause this time i relapsed again whenever i start studying my urges start hitting me hard and hence my study is also getting disturbed .

    if anyone is out there who wants to help me then please i beg help me to get out of this ,
    i dont want to turn my life into living hell in future i really want to achieve something big an want to fulfill my dream to be a DOCTOR .


    so guys please understand my situation and help me out :[ ,


    THANK YOU FOR READING !!!
     
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  2. palindromo

    palindromo Fapstronaut

    I'm studying to become a doctor too, but when i study i don't have urges
    Are you still using porn?
    Are you're relapse connected with stress?

    Control stress
     
  3. Anubhav140

    Anubhav140 Fapstronaut

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    NO BRO I DONT WATCH PORN
    YES I GUESS URGES ARE DUE TO STRESS
     
  4. p1n1983

    p1n1983 Fapstronaut

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    Think about it this way. One year ago you used to fap twice a day. That's 60 faps a month. Today you are fapping once every 10 days, that's 3 times a month. For me that is hugh improvement!!

    Build your condifence around that and keep pushing. You will never loose if you keep fighting.
     
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  5. Anubhav140

    Anubhav140 Fapstronaut

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    Thank you bro for your kind words I was just writing all the reasons due to which I am failing and trying to understand all the mistakes I hope we will win one day, starting the journey once again.
     
  6. janjijoni

    janjijoni Fapstronaut

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    You have noticed your growth which is from 2 times a day to at least one relapse every ten days.

    If this is not achievement then I don't know what is.

    Stress especially mental stress is a trigger for some people. I have had that too. But along the way, you will learn not to control your stress.

    But to notice your stress, to acknowledge it. That the stress is there. And when you remember and recognize that it will pass away.

    There is no exponential and significant growth without stress. I hope that through all of this pressure, you find relief and to see it as a blissful phase of life.

    That you have a goal to strive for and the stress, and the things that cause you stress are to be recognized and pay them a little bit of attention.

    Because your attention now has focused towards your goal to become a doctor.

    I hope you the best. :emoji_bug:
     
  7. Anubhav140

    Anubhav140 Fapstronaut

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    Thank you brother I hope we all will get success on this journey .
     

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