Please [still enslaved to this loneliness]

You have skirted around 'honesty' by underplaying a 'platonic friendship.' With my platonic friendships, I say... hey bro you wanna go out for some beers tonight.' If my mate turns around and says. 'nah I'm watching the footy.'

I'd nod my head and say OK and go about my business. I wouldn't start an entire thread on nofap about 'lonliness.'

So it is evident to me you know NOTHING about honesty or you prefer such personal matters to be left out of public viewing. Which is fair enough.

Look we're here because we seek improvement. Improvement comes with acknowledging our flaws and accepting the possibility to remedy these flaws. Do you want to leave this earth without ever knowing what it feels like to be needed, appreciated... loved.

At the moment you are a ghost, always on the precipice, watching but never feeling, never knowing what it is like to have companionship. Accept this and you make changes to overcome this.

Otherwise carry on being a ghost.

 

Sometimes we all need to agree to disagree and leave it at that. Please stay on topic and be respectful to those in and out of this thread. Thank you.

 

I was reading through what tweeby said and your responses and I thought that your responses were validating your OP and actually allowing you to be more vulnerable and open. Other than tweeby being rude and condescending we do encourage other peoples' opinions and I thought you were doing awesome at analyzing your feelings and where you were coming from compared to your OP. My comment about agreeing to disagree may have been a little to strong and I apologize for that. I want you to know that I am removing myself from the decision process regarding you and tweeby. I don't want you to feel that I am biased in any way.

Given what I just mentioned, I was hoping to keep your thread on track from here on out. I apologize for failing in this instance.

Stay strong Igy!. You are doing a great job!

 

I read this whole exchange between u and tweeby a few mins ago..
Igy, your genuine interest to help others drew me toward u...
I hope tweeby realises and learns frm u tat genuine help comes not frm a place of arrogance and feeling of - I knw u better than yourself pal!
Bt it comes from relating, understanding and using kind words...

 

That's ok. As long as he doesn't bother u.

 

I hope u r doing well igy.

 

Tweeby stirring up trouble and meddling with things he doesn't fully understand again? Typic!

 

Word, man. Here I was thinking that if anyone had it all figured out it was the mighty @IGY. I'm more of a Bob Dylan type because I get bitter, but I feel you.

 

~

 

Ah, that post had no rhyme or reason to it. Just wanted to bump the thread, is all.

 

I am sorry to hear that... all I can tell you is that your online friends are here for you. Of course this doesn't replace someone who lives in your city and who you can meet in person.

This sounds terrible...