Please tell me is this weird or normal?

I'm a female but I Totally get what you say, I personally never masturbated thinking about the people I know in real life because I found it weird. I mean it's a little embarrassing to look at someone and think oh yeah yesterday I jerked off thinking about you lol. I think it's not weird at all

 

It's not weird that you do this***

 

Umm to be honest I never thought about it before. I don't think it really matters but if you feel weird you can try thinking about people you know. Thinking about people we know sounds healthier and closer to reality but still masturbation is masturbation and it's better not do it at all

 

Don't worry it's not a rude question. Now that I'm thinking about your question, I have 2 answers. 1) I personally don't wanna KNOW if a guy masturbates thinking about me, even the guy I like 2) but I kinda like it if he thinks about me, because it means he really likes me
I know, it's a little confusing lol
In conclusion, I think I would like it more if my partner thinks about me rather than other girls
I hope this is the right answer and you are not confused

 

No problem and good luckkk

 

I don't think it's weird either. I think you enjoy the "chase" a lot. You seek what's hard to get.
Once you have some connection with someone, it's indeed really hard to have lust of them because you are more in touch with their personalities. I think many people have this to be honest.

 

My advice is please don't think about women you know when you masturbate. It's good to think about them at other times, but definitely not when masturbating. You don't want to start thinking perversely of them, or see them in the manner of "I had a pretty good fap session with her...". And then you talk to her and are supposed to act as if it's alright? I think there'd be hidden feelings lingering inside you while you talk to them, and it will definitely affect your interactions and feelings towards them.

About the "too respectful" part. I think what it means is women want someone who's confident. It's a problem when you're to scared to say what you believe in, or you try too hard to make her like you, and end up seeming like you're thinking "will she like this? will she like me?". Be strong, and don't be scared of that tiny little bit that you don't do exactly what she "likes".

Yet, being respectful is good. Don't be an asshole, and definitely NOT a pervert who faps to her and then talks to her as normal.

Not saying you're bad or anything, just don't want you to make some sort of mistake that harms you socially and mentally. Hope this helps.

 

Hi bro, no masturbation is possible.
There are lots of techniques, including tantra and semen retention.
I found really benefit in my life with stop M
Confidence, energy, positivity... I found it very enlightening.

Goodluck for you bro

 

I have done that many times. I think it is normal

 

It is completely normal