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Please, this is my last chance.

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Monk Mode Mike, Oct 24, 2021.

  1. Oct 24, 2021 #1
    Monk Mode Mike

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    Hi Community,
    Mike here (25 years old).

    I'm a healthy, fit male struggling to orgasm during sex. I've had sex 10 or so times now and I have NEVER orgasmed during sex, sometimes I've been drunk but the majority I haven't and I still can't orgasm, I have feeling in some positions. I use to jack off PRONE to PORN, I quit PRONE 3 or so years ago and can't orgasm. I still watch porn and jack off with my hand but I feel like I'm using a death grip.

    I have delayed ejaculation I believe.

    Please, help. I joined this forum after reading peoples stories, am I broken? I want kids when I'm older but I can't orgasm. I'm so upset I don't know if it'll be like this forever. I've now committed to NEVER watching PORN again. What are your suggestions?

    Summary:
    Use to prone jack off from 10-22 years old. Now 3 or so years since I last did prone.
    Have NEVER orgasmed during sex.

    I'm on my knees here, it's embarrassing. Please help me community.

    Am I broken?

    Mike.
     
    Monk Mode Mike, Oct 24, 2021
    Monk Mode Mike, Oct 24, 2021
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  2. Oct 24, 2021 #2
    Kurz

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    Hey mike! First of all, you are not broken. You have fallen prey to the same thing we all did. There is hope this can be fixed.

    Stay strong on your decision to not watch porn and you will soon be able to orgasm during sex. Maybe take a break from masturbation at all.
    I had the same problem. Now I'm able to orgasm while having sex with a partner. Although I'm by far not completely fixed yet.

    Stay on track. You're not alone with this!
     
    Kurz, Oct 24, 2021
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  3. Oct 24, 2021 #3
    bellator de Christi

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    It’s probably the death grip. You need to stop with the masterbation and pornography. That should help.
     
    bellator de Christi, Oct 24, 2021
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  4. Oct 24, 2021 #4
    Monk Mode Mike

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    You had prone too? I'm never watching porn again. What was your journey like to now? What did you do? You made me smile today that I can fix this
     
    Monk Mode Mike, Oct 24, 2021
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  5. Oct 24, 2021 #5
    Monk Mode Mike

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    Should I 60 day nofap and then attempt intercourse
     
    Monk Mode Mike, Oct 24, 2021
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  6. Oct 25, 2021 #6
    iamShinra

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    A full Hardmode Of 90 days or Plus will work, theirs no substitute to that.
    Checkout some videos of Mark Queppet, Noah BE Church on Youtube they might be helpful
     
    iamShinra, Oct 25, 2021
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  7. Oct 25, 2021 #7
    Kurz

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    What do you mean by "prone"?

    Sorry, I'm not a native speaker...
     
    Kurz, Oct 25, 2021
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  8. Oct 27, 2021 #8
    Monk Mode Mike

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    I am committed, I am going to do this
     
    Monk Mode Mike, Oct 27, 2021
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