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Pls help me figure out my problem

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Leoneeek, Apr 15, 2020.

  1. Leoneeek

    Leoneeek New Fapstronaut

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    Hello all!
    (I am sorry for my amateur english.)

    So i write this post because i don't know if i got PIED or which type ED...

    /about me/
    I am 17 years old and i was watching porn since 13 years. (i think)
    Before i started nofap, i was jerking off like 1-3x per day... sometime because i was bored or i had bad mood..
    I was jerking off semi-erect or soft sometime...
    I liked the feel of chill after O..

    /Here is my problem/
    I got GF and i am really attracted to her! She has best body i could wish... When we are kissing or touching sometime i can get hard for 1-3min or something like that, but i cant maintain that erection...
    When she is giving me head i can be erected like 80%
    When she is jerking me i can be erected like 40%-80% or my dick goes soft
    But when she is ready in position and i should slide in my dick, my dick changes to semi-erect or soft and i can't get my dick to her ...

    With my ex-gf i had 1 lucky sex in doggy position, i slide my semi-erected dick to her and when i was finally in her, my dick changes and i could fuck her with about 70%-90% erection...


    I started do working out more and i have healthy diet...
    I am currently at 15 days of nofap
    (first days were awful but now it is okay and i am not thinking much about PMO)
    I am going to do 90days reboot...

    Am i doing right thing?
    Can you answer me what is wong with me?
    Thank you nofap heroes, if you need something to know ask me!
     
  2. palindromo

    palindromo Fapstronaut

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    Welcome
    Please, start studying carefully what's happening in your mind > https://oceanrecoverycentre.com/2016/07/the-ultimate-guide-to-overcoming-internet-porn-addiction/

    First time without porn will be stressful , but if you resist , in some months you will feel reborn.
    So if you have any temptation , is okay to masturbate if you can't handle the stress , but don't porn anymore.
    No more instagram pictures of models. No more erotic imagines.
    If you experience ''flatline'' and low libido , resist.
    >https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/por...l-size-and-or-libido-are-decreasing-flatline/

    The brain will try to win you and to get some triggers for the seek of dopamine. Resist
     
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  3. Jerry120

    Jerry120 Fapstronaut

    Welcome to the forum! Please go easy on the descriptions. Triggers can derail someone else's recovery.
     
  4. Hey, welcome to the NoFap community
    : )
    It's nice to see you here fighting the good fight alongside us!

    First let me go ahead and drop some helpful links for you:

    Getting Started Guide / Forum Rules / How to Use the NoFap forums/ Glossary/ NoFap Panic button /
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    Rebooting Resources/
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    About NoFap/ Support NoFap


    Here is just some advice:

    First and foremost please take a careful look at each section in the forum, there may be something(s) you will find to be of big help to you.

    Secondly I advise you to be active on your profile(as there a few active people in the profile section). Please start by choosing an avatar and then begin posting frequent status posts to show you're active and needing support/encouragement.
    The forum has got a neat little feature that shows freshly posted statuses for all users to see.
    People will find your profile and give you support.

    There’s a portion of people who love communicating in the profile section..(it should be and is )mostly spportive talk but it doesn't hurt to deviate from supportive conversations. It would be great to have you join in and become part of the team!
    We support others in the threads, profile posts, and journals/reboot logs.
    Once you receive some support, please be sure and be grateful to the member for the help/support you received and consider giving some in return to anyone you wish.

    Thirdly, you should highly consider creating a public journal/reboot log (in the appropriate section for you) to write about your days in depth for us members to follow along on your journey and offer support to you on.

    Please start your journal in the correct section and with that, also try your best to post in the correct sections as it is mandatory and would be helpful to the mods who organize the forum. : )

    Last but not least: Good luck on your journey here, make sure to really give it a try with all your heart!
     

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