PLS HELP!!!

I think it's sad that one of the reason you don't want to be with her is because she's of dark complexion.

I know people may have preferences when dating, like girls with black hair or brunettes over blondes or viceversa or people preferring skinny girls over tickher girls or viceversa or even blue eyes over brown eyes, but I just find it sad when someone rejects another person because of his/her complexion. I mean all the other features are minor ones but the skin color one is the main look of a person, that's why I find it sad.

But do what you want to do, don't feel forced to do something.

 

That's right dude, if you love her, marry her! The complexion bias is just ignorant and it's great that you want to get over it, that's the way!
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I'm a little confused, you say she is unintelligent, yet she is a lawyer. As far as intellectual professions go, lawyers are right up there. Do you mean to say she's not conversant on a wide range of topics, or she doesn't appreciate the fine arts? It would help to be more specific about this.

Forget about 'love' as a feeling and focus on 'love' as an action. Do you show love for her through your actions and does she show love for you through hers? There lies your answer.

 

Hey man if you don't love her then don't marry her..... What if the reverse of this, if you love her so much and you have brown complexion but she is beautiful, more intelligent than you ,,,will she consider you a man to marry??? Probably not in most case.... So if woman can show ruthless behaviour towards us then why don't we??? Maybe she loves but majority of that love for status as u r judge and we both know well that , in India how woman attracted towards you when u have such high level status.... So I think u should say her "no" in very polite manner and just move on another one whom u love and care... She does also love u..... Don't do marry if she don't belong to u r caste.... So many problems come in your life u have to face if u do intracaste marriage...

 

Please don't marry her. Break the relationship. I don't think you value her as a person. You insult her on her appearance and her intelligence. You know very well that you don't love her. It's quite clear you are not sexually attracted to her. For the love of God, please let her go. She deserves a better person. She deserves someone who loves her, adores her and enjoys her company. Every person on this earth deserves that. You are not that person for her. If she doesn't see that now, she will realize it later. And you will make her sad, very sad. You both will anyway end up in divorce. Why are you wasting her time and your time? Let her go.

 

Don't judge the judge. The irony. I'm joking btw.

I think you should marry her. She seems like a good girl.

What I see here is your mind, you seem very disturbed, I have the suspicion porn addiction is clouding your thinking process and you are not able to make an objective decision and analysis of this case, meaning the girl. Also a bit unexperienced dealing with women.

Many guys here give the same objection to continue with a girl: skin complexion and that the girl is not very smart or don't have something in common to talk about.

I mean she is a lawyer and you a judge you have plenty to talk about also she can't be that stupid she's a lawyer if you want to talk to someone smart that is what men friends are for.

Do this, go to a room stay calm and make a decision: if you stop being with this girl will you regret it?

Ask yourself this question and feel the answer.

Visualize yourself with and without her, and what gives you more happiness.

Don't "judge" the decision connect to your heart don't think of her skin or if she is smart. Simply see if you regret the decision yes or not.

Will you regret sending this girl to "death penalty" from your life judge? You are used to make important choices and you are fair. Do the same here.