There's a lot I could talk about but I'll just keep this post brief and straight forward. I have completed a successful reboot of 240 days without a single orgasm (besides wetdreams) or any sexual stimuli. I have reintroduced MO only in a healthy and normal way in an attempt to build stamina. I've gotten into shape, worked on getting out of my comfort zone and have become friendly and skilled at social interactions with men and women alike. I feel good about myself and am happy with who I am and where I am in my life. I am still a virgin and have never kissed a girl but am not desperate; I just want a woman in my life and to love and be loved. I'm not as shy anymore and I have tried approaching girls in person in an honest and sincere way without putting too much pressure on them but they never seem to recieve my interest well. I have also tried online dating which I am not particularly fond of but that hasn't really worked well either. My standards are somewhat high but not unreasonably so and I just want to find someone kind and relatable who is moderately attractive. I have many friends that are in healthy romantic relationships but I can never seem to find that connection with someone. I don't know why I haven't been able to find a partner and don't know what I should be doing differently. I'm 19, white, am going to one of the best schools in the state and am graduating a year early, I have a bunch of money that I have been working hard to earn and save for years to be able to start a family one day, I'm no Brad Pitt but I understand nutrition and work out regularly and am in above average shape. I feel like I have a lot going for me and am very fortunate but feel like I'm pretty down to earth and not at all pretentious. I pretty much get along with everyone and feel like my heart's in the right place but I'm still alone. If you were me, what would you do to find a relationship?