PMO Addict Partner asks YOU

Hello
Im a (soon to be ex) wife of a porn addict in the thick of denial. In a nutshell my husband is in the process of filing a divorce of our almost 10 year marriage because he days he is “done with my baggage”, “trust is gone”, “can never please me” (not sexually) and irrationally jealous to the point of being “psycho”

He has not had a formal diagnosis but it’s obvious. In a nutshell here is the
Outline
- he had a cloud drive of porn with files dating back to 2004, just shortly before we startef dating.
- he has a hard drive at home, easily accessible via smart tv with files upon files of porn dating bacm to 2012
- he also downloaded ads for escorts but claims he’s never had encounters
- he currently likes to watch “try on”
Videos of thick curvy women on youtube
- Hes been texting consistently with a coworker 10’years our junior who is thick and curvy
- he has given said coworker gifts.
- he insist im jealous of said coworker for no reason
- we have 8 MONTH old infant daughter.
- he says he started watching porn because of what I make him feel (inadequate)
- i always felt something was wronh and he was distant...i asked abt it but he says im just needy-
- we rarely had sex and not because lf me because I have a high sex drive. In fact, he was upset that i ask for it when he’s “tired”
- he has trouble with his physiology - PE.
- he is convinced im
The cause lf his problems

Is there a chance for recovery, if not for our marriage but for himself?
What can I do to encourage empathy for me and our daughter. This divorcr puts us all
In financial trouble.
Is this worth fighting for or is it a lost cause?

 

Im there! My detailed story is there
Too. Lol. I wanna pick the addict brain

 

I’m not really counting on the restoration of our marriage, but I’m praying for his recovery as a person so he can effectively and lovingly be part of our daughter’s life. I don’t see how he can be a lovinh father with the veil of addiction.