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PMO Addiction: Skinny Dick Problem

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Deleted Account, Oct 24, 2020.

  1. Hello,
    I’m glad this website/community exists. I wanted to save some money and not go to a doctor/recovery group. Where I live, PMO addiction is seen as a political issue. So nobody in my country recognizes it as an addiction. Nor are their professionals to treat it.

    Basically I have had this addiction since middle school. I got addicted because of loneliness and my peers/friends kept talking about it. It’s been an on and off thing. I would quit for three years and then relapse etc. But now I think my addiction is at a point where I need to quit or I will suffer the consequences for years to come.

    My flaccid penis isn’t normal. It doesn’t look confident and proud, it looks abused. My erections are weak to the point where I can barely get a morning wood going. I suffer from some form of social anxiety. But it’s a mild case.

    I have read about NoFap and have done it for a few days. My erections have gotten better but my flaccid penis still looks abused. My question is: How long did it take for things to get better?

    Thank you
     
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  2. IGY

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    Welcome to this community. :)

    I suppose, after a decade+ of masturbating to porn, your penis is abused. It is not just the frequency of masturbation, it is also the way you do it. For example, there is prone masturbation. This is where a guy lies face down (prone) and rubs his penis along the mattress or whatever. This can cause a lot of damage. Even if you masturbate by stroking your penis, there is something called death grip. In our excitement and craving for the best orgasm possible, we grip the penis much too hard. This also causes damage. Often we jerk off with a really quick hand move which is totally unrealistic when it compares to sexual intercourse. So, as I say, you have abused your penis and that is why it is looking sorry for itself. :( The body has tremendous recuperative powers. So, it will recover if you stop masturbating. Obviously stop porn as well and allow time for your brain and your penis to recover. It will take many months, so don't expect a quick transformation.
     
  3. Thanks for the information. Obviously, the transformation won’t be quick but it’s worth acknowledging that recovery is possible.
     
  4. GeeJ

    GeeJ Fapstronaut

    How much years where you acting out and how did you damage so much?
     
  5. I first started watching when I was 14. Then I stopped for about three years and then would relapse every day for a good two years. I would get busy with life and not relapse for a year but then binge relapse every day the next year.
     
  6. Psalm27:1my light

    Psalm27:1my light Fapstronaut

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    Took my husband about 8 months. I didn’t realize how bad it looked or how small it had shrunk to. Looks much, much healthier, much bigger, and softer to my touch. It’s even a healthier color now.
     
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  7. How long was he addicted for?
     
  8. Psalm27:1my light

    Psalm27:1my light Fapstronaut

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    He started with porn magazines, so total about 40 years.
     
  9. That’s quite bad. The good news is that recovery is definitely possible.
     
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  10. GeeJ

    GeeJ Fapstronaut

    I agree with Psalm it might have been the way you were doing it and other contributing factors.
    I was regular until 25 from 15.
    Every day amd more than once.
     
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  12. Queek The HeadTakker

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    It doesnt, mine is 18 cm with ....well it is normal shape its regular not much to say about it and im still virgin so saying that dick size matters its just stupid girls dont see your dick when you first atract them and at the time they see your dick their already soo atracted to you that it isnt a big issue
     
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