Pmo challenge - m only

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by madmax1, Aug 1, 2014.

  1. madmax1

    madmax1 Fapstronaut

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    Hi all.

    Two questions:

    Would m only without porn be considered a relapse?

    Would a thai massage with or without a happy ending be considered a relapse?

    Thanks. Need some release. Partner has gone to the Netherlands for a few weeks.
     
  2. NoBrainer

    NoBrainer Distinguished Fapstronaut

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    If you've already made it to 84 days, what's the point? Surely you like/love your partner enough not to spoil your streak just to get a quick release. Just wait until they get back...
     
  3. 011214

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    As Abel said, it depends on what your personal goal is. Be really honest with yourself here. And if you are making the decision to M, make it about being connected to your body. Fantasizing about other women will not serve you or your relationship.

    Having said that, I just read your counter and it looks like your goal was to not edge or M at all. If you need a release, look for ways to be creative. Connect with other people in real ways. Stay off the screens. You can go a few weeks. You know that you can.
     
  4. Well its according to your choice but me personally consider MO with or without P a relaspe.It just disrupts the flow of being clean for me cause I still have these thoughts in my head.The choice is yours to make.
     
  5. albatross15

    albatross15 Fapstronaut

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    Who cares if your brain tells you that you "need" a release. Take control of your mind. Spend the next few weeks utilizing your extra sexual energy towards something productive in your life. Your partner will notice and appreciate it. :)
     
  6. madmax1

    madmax1 Fapstronaut

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    Relapsed today. Couldn't stop it. Starting again.
     
  7. madmax1

    madmax1 Fapstronaut

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    The relapse seems to have stopped now. Lots of anguish and what was i thinking thoughts since then. It's worrying that i couldn't stop this runaway train. I was so happy beforehand.
     

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