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Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by control your life, Dec 24, 2018.
What i ment is that you are in a better position than me ...and you will do reasonable thing if you dont delay any more but tough it out
Guys do NOT give up. It is going to be hell. Hell I tell you. There are going to be so many days when you wish that you coud go back to numb yourself with some porn. You are going to have to face your porn-induced depression, your mental problems, your thoughts, people, problems and life is never ever going to stop throwing things at you.
Imagine the journey as being a walk up a fiery mountain of hell and then after 6 months to a year, a tiny string over the great canyon, and after you've solved everything, removed every trigger and dedicated yourself to your family, friends, passion ( PICK UP a musical instrument right now !) and boosted your physical life in every way imaginable, then and only then (from 3 months to a year and a half or even more) will you slide down a rope of heaven where every moment is blissful and every failure and problem is an opportunity to grow and destroy every asshole that has ever had the stupidity to annoy you and stand in your path to LIFE!
Start living, my friends, focus on BUILDING THE NEW !!!
Start meditation, mindfulness, set goals, go running/ physical exercise every single day, interact with people, go volunteering, dedicate your life to something greater. You are all meant for something GREATER !!! Anyone can do ANYTHING they have ever wanted to do, the 2 limits are your motivation and capacity to dream.
Okay, now you just relapsed or you're on your path to actual LIFE, the road is full of twists and turns and other people (including NoFap that you will visit/ read about every week or so) are your only way out of this mess. Society has given us the amazing internet but horrible, disgusting monsters have given us: Pornography. This is NOT A GIFT. This is a curse. So choose what you want to do/ restrict amongst PMO.
Now, something I've learnt that can benefit you greatly: throw away nearly everything that reminds you of Porn or set up blockers/ give them away to faraway people. Now with the rest, burn it all. Destroy all of that and MOVE ON !
Remind yourself when you need to of the great life you'll live and of all the horrible things you've done to this brain. YOU HAVE ONE LIFE !!!!!
Find a girl , take a leap of faith and watch motivational videos.
Start an instrument, start drawing, talk about your feelings, inspire others to quit and always remember this:
you are STRONG ! (it's time to get back your supercomputer brain, your monstrous muscles, that girl/ guy you want, and the actual purpose you were meant to fulfill).
You are strong and no one can do this for you, please I beg of you, talk to your family, they are here for you and they will never NEVER abandon you, find a psychiatrist a sponsor whatever you need, and stay on this website, you need ACCOUNTABILITY.
Now, also remember the problem is not masturbation or orgasm but their link to PORN and PORN.
Masturbation is quite healthy, and when you learn to control it, you have the right to release sexual tension with your partner or alone, but only masturbation. All of the porn is the poison, it's the addiction, that you BAN Right NOW !!!
Download Youper and meditation apps, they'll help you fix your brain. Even the longest of addictions will eventually be reduced to nothing and you'll be free, as long as you LIVE !!
And you know what, be GRATEFUL !!
Without PMO and without this addiction you'll be the same as the ones who never embarked.
But having overcome it you'll be something new, a true person, one that has outrun the devil and this will turn life into the most amazing Journey every, you have learnt so much already and you have seen how bad P is. You are a survivor and survivors live because they've survived the toughest of challenges.
Max ( my real name is Vic)
I love you all, we are in this TOGETHER !
Remember to have fun !
Lol...great post friend ! So motivating and inspiring .. it needs to go in success stories for sure . Keep strong always
@Inspark I have had a PM addiction for 34 years! NoFap is the first time EVER that I have been able to stay away for such a long time. The temptations is GREAT, as we all know. Stay strong and keep trying.
Hey @MaxLivre , thanks for sharing this helpful post. It is motivating.
I cant believe im missing on this challenge ....i would give anything to be back on...
Checking in. Have a nice week guys.
Half year passed guys ...another half left , not more , not less . Keep it strong . Its worth the efforts to have pmo free year
Checking in. Have a nice day guys .