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Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by Alexander, Jun 30, 2020.
7th day of July and with this one week completed...
I want to be porn free and free of masturbation! Im going Hard mode for 90 days to renew my mind and strengthen my body! Im all in!
In on hard mode! NO PMO
Day 1 going strong!
8th day of july
So far 7 for 7.
9th day of july... 1/3rd will be completed tomorrow
Day 1. If I get any cue to watch it or the feeling. I just block my phone straight away, better restrict ourselves forcefully rather than controlling.
Jumped in to check how long this streak will gooooooooooooooooo......
1/3rd of july is completed...
11th day of july...
Hello,I've just relapsed. Thus I am starting this new challenge. I have reset all my counters and now I will attempt to abstain completely from all PMO during this month of July.
Here is my strategy:
- Stop drinking water after 8pm to not wake up early in the morning and have the chance to fap. If it does happen, I will do 10 pushups on the spot and that should calm the urges.
-Nothing more. No fantasy, no porn, no edging, no masturbation, nothing.
-30s showers and cold: to never have that opportunity to fap in there again.
-Every time I have an urge, every time I feel depressed, any time when I feel that I can relpase, I will drop down on the floor and give out as many clean pushups as I can: to get rid of the energy that is causing the urge. It may be 10, 20, 30 or more but it will be enough. I trust it.
every single day, I will come here and I will write one post in the mroning talking about my feelings, my experiences, what I want to do... The only time I ever managed todo anything was when I came on this forum allthese years ago abnd you helped me out. This communtiy is awesome and it is the way I will rpevail/
So every day I will write a post, and every day pushups and WE WILL GET THERE TOGETHER AND WE WILL NOT STOP!
Thank you so much,
have a nice day,
My name is Victor, I am 17 eyars old and thisis my joruney!
I would like to join this challenge, be supportive to and for others..let do it
I plan on no P,M or O whatsoever. So in other words, Hard mode.
I plan on making it to at least 90 days and then evaluating from there. But based on my experiences with PMO, I don't really think I wanna go back to porn. As for having sex in the future, I'm really not sure yet. Its too early to say.
My main goal is become a software developer. Beyond this, I also want to read at least 12 books this year(I've already read 9), establish a daily meditation practice, work up to eventually doing a full workout routine 5 days a week(right now I'm doing two sets of dumbbell curls a day and gradually building up) and ultimately move out.
I'm doing this because I want to take control of my life. I want to stop feeling the shame of being a fraud to myself. I know the kind of person I want to be, but I am "casting votes" towards the kind of person who masturbates as James Clear describes in Atomic Habits. I want to start casting votes towards being the kind of person that doesn't miss a workout, that takes time out of his day to slow down and meditate, and work towards his dream of being a software developer. Day zero, let's do this.
12th day of july
So, July 12:
Todya was okay, I avoided temptations and I was great at not giving in at all.
The sky was clear but who knows when dusk will fall and crowd my vision: giving way to stormy clouds and blinding obscurity.
Let's all fight together!
I want to participate.
in next two days half of the July month will be completed
Day 2 of personal journey. Didn't get to start the july challenge when july actually started but being able to say i got to the end of the month is motivation.
So, I had an incident yesterday and I relpased.
Thus I am strating again.
In the future I'll try to go to bed quicker and keep all electronic devices out of my room and I'll fight off these temptations even more.