PMO-Free Commitment thread for March 2020! (aka Self-Mastery March)

Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by Alexander, Feb 29, 2020.

  1. Alexander

    Alexander Website Admin
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    The purpose of this thread is to provide Rebooters with a place to share their commitment to abstaining from particular sexual behaviors throughout the entire month. Although it is strongly recommended to make a public commitment, posting in this thread is not required for participation in a reboot.

    New to reboot? Here are some suggestions:
    1. Learn about porn addiction, excessive masturbation, and abstaining from PMO (a process called "reboot" or "rebooting"). Our free Getting Started guide that is advertised everywhere is a great option.
    2. Decide if abstaining from PMO is something that you really want. If you don't buy into the process 100%, you'll probably not make it through the month. If you have decided that you would like to participate, proceed to step three.
    3. Sign up for this month by replying to this thread.
    4. Consider setting up a PMO-tracking day counter to monitor your progress.
    5. Create a Journal Thread and share your progress periodically, preferably on a daily basis. Not only does this help you stay accountable, it documents valuable anecdotal evidence that will ultimately help other people going through similar situations in the future.
    6. Ask questions and get support by posting on NoFap. Help others, too, if you are able to.
    7. Get an accountability partner.
    Would you like to participate? If so, please reply to this thread with the following information.
    • Are you not going to allow yourself to masturbate? View porn? Orgasm whatsoever? Not allowing any outlet for sexual release is dubbed "hard mode". For a full list of parameters, see our Rebooting 101 page.
    • How long do you want this challenge to last? By default it is one month, but 90 days is recommended for rebooting. You can't know how long it will take to "rewire" your brain, it widely varies due to individual circumstances. Some people require a year or longer to regain sexual function.
    • What are your goals?
    • Why are you doing this?
    Coming in after this month has already started?

    Don't panic - it is not a problem. Users sign up for NoFap's rebooting events all months long. Just follow the instructions above and jump in at any time by replying to this thread.
     
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  2. Thisisav

    Thisisav New Fapstronaut

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    I had started NoFap 21 days earlier,but in over confidence i am again in this hell. Starting again here *2nd day
     
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  3. JohannFaust

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    Count me in on your challenge! I am going to do hard mode, and I want this challenge to last for a month; two months if possible.

    Here are some of my goals for this month:
    • Start apporaching girls
    • Post in these forums at least once a week
    • Find ways to meet new people
    • Improve my social skills
    I am taking on this challnge because I feel miserable after every time I PMO. I also want to start getting my dating life under control, as I will need a new sexual outlet. Overall, I want to feel better about myself at the end of the month.
     
  4. Rohit kumar chowdary

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  5. Iwanttobefree1

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    Jan and Feb PMO free and aiming for March to be PMO free and I believe I make it 90 days this month.
     
  6. Leooooooooo

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  7. zoref

    zoref New Fapstronaut

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    I am starting today- Hard Mode. My goal is to do for 90 days. I am doing this to be more productive, stop from escapism, be more confident and cure social anxiety.
     
  8. untunedguitar

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    My goal is an indefinite hardmode until I get into a serious relationship, preferably after marriage. I am doing it for the health benefits and to be able to build deep relations beyond physicality. So count me in!
     
  9. Manhoodman

    Manhoodman Fapstronaut

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    Day 3 free from PMOing, I am doing this to get a grip of my life and enable me chase my goals in life. I am going for the Standard mode free from Porn and Masturbation
     
  10. MasterPablo

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  11. Winchester88

    Winchester88 New Fapstronaut

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    I join today. It has been affecting my studies and my social life for a long time Now. God knows How much I wanna quit watching porn. Lets see how this plays out.
     
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  12. MasterPablo

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  13. Manhoodman

    Manhoodman Fapstronaut

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    Am back to day 1, I just relapsed
     
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  14. Leashed4good

    Leashed4good Fapstronaut

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    I am at day 133. Count me in. I want to kill this March madness!!! No PMO, hard mode.
     
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  15. JohannFaust

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  16. MaxLivre

    MaxLivre Fapstronaut

    Hi
    I would like to stop PMO and see where it gets me.
    I am sick of staying in this vicious circle, I want to do something with my life. Please God help me.
    please guys help me.

    I will write here everyday for accountability.
    Thanks for everything,
    Vic
     
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  17. Ixthus

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    count me in, I'm in it for the long term
     
  18. rishu.s

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    since the first week has passed with continuous failing I will still try to make rest of the day of the march month fap-free
     
  19. MaGRaM

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    I'm in! Let's keep the spirits up!
     
  20. Dobletey

    Dobletey New Fapstronaut

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    Count with me!!!! Day 1
    Hard Mode

    I really want to get this crap out of my mind, if there is someone who can be my mentor and partner, I would really appreciate it
     

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