I have the strong feeling that PMO made me way more picky with girls than before, I rejected many girls in the past because they were not pretty enough. When I think back I deeply regret this.. After 300 days I had some relapses but now back on the right track. But my reboot didnt change my pickyness in my opinion. What u guys think?
Yes PMO definitely blinds you to the many many forms that beauty and sexiness can take in a woman. For example I was in the grocery store for 10 minutes yesterday and saw not one but two young women in that span who I would have had no hesitation approaching if I were looking. They were literally on either side of me in the checkout line (one in front and one behind) and were both sexy as hell yet in different ways even with their COVID masks on. If I were still PMOing I guarantee I likely wouldn't have even noticed them. And this was on a Friday afternoon in a relatively small city (albeit university town) that isn't even known for an abundance of hot women.
Well I'm in a committed relationship so I don't approach anyone but by the first couple of weeks clean I was definitely starting to notice more... not just noticing women but everything about my surroundings, more in tune with other's emotional states and my own, etc.
I used to be super picky, then recently I made an account on okcupid and got rejected by hundreds of women so that fixed me. I should mention that there's lots of sexy pictures and sex talk on dating apps so if you're trying to avoid anything porn related then maybe this isn't the best idea.
Guess kinda same for me, I take good care of myself with wearing nice clothes, working out, smelling nice etc. So I kinda expect this from the girls side too... Who knows time will tell, maybe my brain needs longer to heal or indeed I need more rejection in my dating life, or maybe Im just a pick person lol.
Exactly , if you have high standards to yourself you should have the same to girls , honneslty i think nofap even makes me more picky because my confidence and self esteem increases
I cant say if I am less picky, because I was never talking to girls or dating any while in my isolated lifestyle. On nofap, I find I am attracted to more women, appreciating their natural beauty, and also discovered my ego thought I was more attractive than I really am. I wouldn't date a fat woman either, it's not attractive. Well, depending on what kind of fat. There's healthy and unhealthy fat. Healthy fat woman are just as beautiful as skinny ones. I would define healthy fat as being not obese, and good diets and active.
