POLL: If one of your NoFap goals was to eliminate social anxiety...

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by silverlukas, Jan 21, 2016.

If your goal was to eliminate social anxiety, how long did it take you to feel super confident?

  1. 0-14 Days

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  2. 15-30 Days

    60.0%
  3. 31-90 Days

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  4. 91-180 Days

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  5. 181 Days to a Full Year

    20.0%
  6. More than a Year

    0 vote(s)
    0.0%
  7. I'm more than a year with NoFap and still can't hold a conversation with a beautiful woman

    20.0%
  1. silverlukas

    silverlukas Fapstronaut

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    I think I can see some improvements in my confidence levels, but I don't have any "superpowers" yet or major attraction from women. For those of you who started NoFap in order to gain some confidence with the opposite sex, I'm curious about your circumstances. Please answer this poll and comment below!
     
  2. flyjoy

    flyjoy Fapstronaut

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    after some days it comes for me easy to talk to woman and make smalltalk. i am normally an shy guy. mo about 20 years
     
  3. IamMike

    IamMike Fapstronaut

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    I was a somewhat of a "late bloomer" but I decided one day that I wanted to have certain type of people/women in my life and then I gradually exposed myself to these circles. I ended up creating a habit of doing that. As I naturally got more comfortable around them my personality shined through more and I cared less and less what others thought of me. The key is not to put anyone on a pedestal (and I'm not suggesting looking down on anyone either) as they sense the energy which ultimately makes them feel threatened. Beautiful women are human beings just like anyone else. They eat, sleep, poo, and have 24 hours in a day just like we do. They are not better than us and we are not better than them, and they have the same insecurities and issues as we do. Engage and respect them as you would ultimately want to be respected.
     
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  4. silverlukas

    silverlukas Fapstronaut

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    Thanks guys! Totally agree with IamMike. Pedestaling women is unattractive, to be sure.
     

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