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Porn addiction and being attracted to women ONLY

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by mutu, Feb 5, 2020.

  1. mutu

    mutu Fapstronaut

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    Hi,

    No long story, let me get to the point right off the bat.

    I'm always interested in having a friendship with only women. I'm not that interested to have friendships with men and even my male friends call to hand out 99% of the time I turn down their invitation.

    Does long term PMO addiction have anything to do with that?

    I've also come to believe that I should NOT have any friendship with women because firstly it drags me back to p0rn. It also makes me not satisfied with any woman in real life and always looking for more women yet not satisfaction (Just like p0rn).

    so PMO addiction taught me that in order to have a satisfied intimate life with women you should have only one single relationship with one woman.

    What do you think and what should I do because I don't wanna be dragged back into PMO.
     
  2. Breadman

    Breadman Fapstronaut

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    Watching porn tends to make us more unsocial. I think because we are ashamed of ourselves and worry we could be exposed.
     
  3. Kligor

    Kligor Fapstronaut

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    Hi buddy,first of all you know yourself best,much better than anyone else,so take a better look why you want friendship with females more than with males.I m in similar situation i more like to be friend with girls/womens than with males,but something equal from me not much difference.
    Porn and masturbation makes us to be less social.When your friends calls you out go with them and have fun,might that will change your mind,good luck.
     
  4. Haddock

    Haddock Fapstronaut

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    Hi,

    spend time with male friend. You need support for this journey on nofap. If being with female friends makes you relapse, then stop seeing them for some time if you need to.

    If this appealing has started after you try to quit P, then maybe you're just trying to have "soft P" with your female friends -> not good. If it started before, then I can't see any explanation. Maybe it has nothing to do with PMO.
     
  5. henryhill

    henryhill Fapstronaut

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    Can’t fully relate though I personally feel like I prefer socializing with woman than men or at least like having a balance between the two.

    I have found that having female friends has helped in some respects because it can help me realize that women are people not objects for my pleasure. So I guess it depends on how your mind is viewing them possibly? If you are fantasizing
    About them then maybe that’s not very good.

    I do think that having male friends is important because as has been mentioned that might better understand what you’re going through.
     

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