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Porn addiction is Smarter than you!! Your mind isn't enough!!

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by ProMindfulness, Nov 15, 2018.

  1. ProMindfulness

    ProMindfulness Fapstronaut

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    Porn is sneaky, it's poisonous, it's like that little cute hamster whom you and everyone thought is beautiful and harmless, but it is wearing a mask, multiple masks actually, which is why your mind isn't enough because it has the power to manipulate your mind, it has the power to make you feel nothing and waste your life, it has the power to convince you that everything is "fine" in your life, that you don't need a partner to have a truly satisfied sexual life, and they use all these amazing high tech cameras and lighting to create a world in which you can easily enter but hardly escape, a world that provides you with "free food" but you are clearly clueless about how the food was made, or what the purpose of these films are, i mean if you went on the dark web you would clearly see how much twisted addicts become, and they all started just like we all did, but it's too late for them, because they totally believe that they are already messed up and there's no going back, but you're different, i don't care if you're 12 or 90, as long as you're breathing, it's enough evidence for you to experience the life that you want, it's enough evidence that many many people throughout the world lose everyday, GET ANGRY at porn, not your sexual energy because PORN is the reason for making you powerless over your mind, and to fight it you must ask your best friends to help you, ask your SOUL by meditating everyday or by being friendly with your environment, ask your BODY by exercising everyday and by doing that you will understand that your mind isn't as strong alone, YOU ARE MORE THAN YOUR MIND, so use what you have to corner that b**** for just tomorrow, then 4 days, then 7 days, then 2 weeks, then 1 month, then 2 months, then 3 months, then you can compare the two and you will realize how much of a difference it makes, because you can't judge now unless you go all the way through. Best of luck!!! I'm on day 1 btw!!!
     
  2. Skyfall1125

    Skyfall1125 Fapstronaut

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    Well said brother! Good luck in your journey.
     
  3. ProMindfulness

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    You too bro!!
     
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  4. Carlito

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    Thanks for the encouraging words I’m on day 1 also.By the way what’s up with the dark web I have no clue.
     
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  5. ProMindfulness

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    the dark web is full of awful and traumatizing porn that is inhuman and makes you sick, i never went through it but just some youtube videos were enough for me to realize how sick pornograghy can get, and also many criminals reported their reasons to watching pornograghy and sexual abuse
     
  6. I completely agree that it is not wise only to fight PMO with the mind. Give your mind a break and fight it with the soul and the body too. Good food, exercise, cold showers, prayer and meditation all reduce the urges for PMO. They cut them off before they get strong. Much easier pathway to recovery!
     
  7. TiG3RKaT

    TiG3RKaT New Fapstronaut

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    I broke my nofap challenge yet again today , I can't even get past max of 10 days , its like my mind deviates to porn after 5-6 days , I workout a lot , eat a lot of food , but I can't get over porn.
    Now need to take challenge yet again from tommorow onwards :/
     
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  8. Sunny W

    Sunny W Fapstronaut

    thank for your words! it's very inspiring!
     
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  9. ChicagoGenXGuy

    ChicagoGenXGuy Fapstronaut

    Yes agree 100%. Very weak right now with terrible anxiety over a pending job offer. Waiting on the getting started paperwork to come across. Fragile moment. My urethra is screaming at me for "relief" which can only come in the way of MO. Even without the P the so called relief would break my recovery. Running on treadmill, showering, and getting out of this house to save my recovery. Yes, the addiction knows and reminds you what you want but don't need. The fetish behavior, the accessories, the mental playback porn which to me is the real challenge. Not looking at porn is relatively easy. Not calling up long term porn inspired fantasies for MO is the beast for me. I can't, I won't. God help me today and every day. The science is failing me at the moment.
     
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  10. uchdollar

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    Hi guys! I created a WhatsApp group for us to connect, help and encourage each other to overcome this shit. We can share our stories and be there for one another. The invite link is here https://chat.whatsapp.com/FPF7UBwkS7N9QQzE0ViBu6
     
  11. ProMindfulness

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    yeah, it's pretty difficult which is why so many people even in their 40's or 50's still struggle with it, but it's much easier when you're younger i remember when i was 16 it was easier for me to stop for months unlike now i'm almost 21 and it's getting darker but i use meditation and workout and try to go out and experience life instead of staying in my room and complaining about how it ruined my life
     
  12. captainteemo

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    I agree it starts small and end's up bad you first start watching softcore then from there you will be watching even more disturbing video's from there you can't find anyting more disturbing that can give ou the same dophamine levels so you go on the darkweb to watch something even worse then before.

    Its a scary world whe life in today stay strong all.
     

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