Porn does not cause Ed

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Soulman 2477, Nov 22, 2021.

  1. Soulman 2477

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    If you can get it up when watching pornography but have trouble getting it up when you have sex is porn the problem?

    Is there something else to the problem like nervous and anxiety?

    New porn of today like onlyfans is not as sexual as is studio made porn. So is the belief that porn messed with your brain really a thing?
     
  2. Psalm27:1my light

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    Well my husband didn’t get pied until 45, we had been having sex since 23. From 45-50 when his addiction escalated he got pied and couldn’t get hard for sex. Then at 50 started getting into recovery and within 4 months of being clean he could have sex again. Literally no other changes except stopping pmo at that time. Any time he relapses he loses his ability to have sex. He’s 53.
     
  3. Upwards2020

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    Nah it definitely does
     
  4. Upwards2020

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    If you say that you obviously don't get your brain on porn . The entire basis of the effects of porn

    You get pied if you read your brain on porn at all you would get it
     
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  5. A Naija boy

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    If this is so, the purpose of this community is just silly… lol just kidding
    Any form of porn, emphasis on “any form” of porn messes up you brain to which affects you r sexual health.
     
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  6. Upwards2020

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    Same I'm 31
     
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  7. Candun

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    It's not even that you can only get it up with P. In some cases if the P isn't "strong" enough, it can be the same outcome. So no, PIED isn't just because of "nervousness" or "anxiety".

    Disregarding the last statement because honestly it makes 0 sense.
     
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  8. Soulman 2477

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  9. wastewater

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    Pied is real. Have experienced it 1st hand. So many recorded cases on YBOP site. No doubt- nervousness, anxiety will result as a result of being subjected to pied for first time and carrying forward if you don't address this issue. But don't kid yourself, porn re-wires your brain; whether you are aware of it or refuse to acknowledge it.
     
  10. Soulman 2477

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    Porn does re wire your brain but I don't believe we can point at porn directly as the cause for ed

    Porn gives you sexual satisfaction which in turn means you will not seek out real women for real experiences and learn how to pick up women and chat to women sexually. This I 100-percent believe.

    But pointing at porn to be the cause of Ed I am not so sure.It is also difficult to separate the psychological effect of watching porn from other psychological factors, such as performance anxiety.
     
  11. Psalm27:1my light

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    Well when it happens to you it will make a believer out of you. My husband had no idea it was caused by pmo. 5 long freaking years and within 4 months of abstaining he was rock hard in bed , better than he’d ever been. If he so much as slips once it affects him. If I hadn’t experienced it, I probably wouldn’t believe it either
     
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    I still believe if you never had sex for a month and he never watched porn he would be rock hard again your body was what he was desensitize to and porn was something new. Porn did not cause ED. If a man sleep with you and you do the same shit your be bored same for men the diffence being me have dicks that need to be hard

    I also believe if he slept with a new partner he would be hard if there was no other psychological factors like he was cheating on you
     
  13. Psalm27:1my light

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    If my body is what he was desensitized to then why can he have sex perfectly fine now? But if he so much as looks at porn he gets Ed?
     
  14. Soulman 2477

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    You miss the point porn is not a cause you can point to. Men can and will be hard for there GF if there not over stimulated by having sex loads with the same person that's why they say " spice it up"
     
  15. Psalm27:1my light

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    The whole point is he IS rock hard for me so long as he doesn’t pmo. No problems in bed so long as he doesn’t watch porn and jerk off.
     
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  16. Candun

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    Trash piece of propaganda that continues to push lies and blame religion for the negative effects of their precious P lmao
     
  17. Soulman 2477

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    If you had a threesome with another woman while he had watched porn I bet he would be hard.

    I bet if he saw a woman with huge tits and a huge cleavage working in a store he would be hard.

    Or it could just be he just got over his mental thoughts
     
  18. Soulman 2477

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    I do believe men get ed but from porn I am not sure.

    People blame porn for mental health psychological issues how ever big or small they are

    You can get bored and overstimulated from sex and porn the effects are the same. If a man get ed from banging the same women he need a new woman,to spice it up or cool off .
     
  19. Psalm27:1my light

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    Ok, believe what you want, I know what caused it. You still haven’t explained why he gets rock hard for me now every single time? Because if desensitization to my body was the problem then why did it suddenly become not a problem once he gave up porn? My body sure didn’t become new to him
     
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  20. Soulman 2477

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    It's hard for a woman to believe she could cause Ed. It's like saying why would a man cheat most men cheat because he wanted to try the new woman and that was more fun. Porn is not a cause because you can interchange the porn for other things to make him hard.

    Unless it's a psychological issue

    Imagine the lady in the videos came over to your house that could make him hard Unless it's a psychological issue.

    Ed is ed if you watch porn and are not getting hard and not getting hard in real life . ED is not you only get hard watching porn and not in real life
     

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