Porn free for 500+ days but..

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by xXkiller42, Aug 4, 2019.

  1. xXkiller42

    xXkiller42 Fapstronaut

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    So I thought about reintroducing masturbation in a normal way, and I've just done it as an experiment but I don't feel anything negative, no exhaustion , sadness, lacking motivation Etc. What are your thoughts and opinions on this? Does it affect pmo, I've heard pmo is only with pornography like you are masturbating with pornography to climax.
     
  2. plusscientist

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    Hey, I've been wondering if you two could write more about the topic and if you could answer my questions:
    • I'm interested in why have you started MO after some time of abstinence?
    • How much time passed from the beginning of you being PMO-free to switching back to (what you two consider a) healthy amount of MO?
    • @xXkiller42 , how often do you do it? @Tryinghardtoquit2 said twice a week. How about you?
    • Do you have urges and masturbate when urges kick in or do you masturbate at exact same days that you set?(@Tryinghardtoquit2 wrote about having a reminder)?
    • Aren't you afraid that you could fall back into masturbating every day if not more than that?
    • Aren't you afraid that you might eventually lose some if not all of the benefits you gained?
    • Do you have a partner? Does MO affect your interest in searching for a partner(if you are single)/wanting to have sex with your partner(if you have one)?
    The following set of questions really interests me:
    • How often do you last? When I MO-ed after my longest streak of 46 days, I lasted for a minute.
      • Do you try to extend that time by stopping and then continuing(I think that this is called edging) or do you cum when your body feels like it is supposed to cum no matter how fast it seems?
      • Do you need more time to cum as the time passes and you keep continuing to masturbate and cum?
    • Do you have morning woods and wet dreams? Did MO affected those?
    Sorry if the questions seem random and/or out of order. I really got interested in the topic. You aren't the first two people that wrote about this. I hope that you would be willing to answer some (if not all) of them.
     
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  3. bluemax4

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    Kind of reminds me of the fable about an alcoholic who decides to take a swig of the bottle. Obviously, you've got to decide what's right for you, but I'd be wary of doing it excessively.
     
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  4. xXkiller42

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    I wouldn't say im interested but it happens with strong urges, i'm single and still get morning wood
     
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  5. xXkiller42

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    the reason why this is an occurrence is because I'll end up running into posts about how doing it after rebooting isn't bad and everybody goes back to it, so I get into the topic more deeply and research and then it happens... So I don't know what to do, I don't feel negative in any way afterwards, but at the same time something tells me that I should be cautious or maybe not do it at all, I've always told myself never again never again but in then what I mentioned happens and then it just goes from there, like a repeating cycle.
     
  6. ultrafabber

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    Not ok. You will feel the negatives if you continue. Masturbation is abnormal. Find a woman and have sex, that's why you have a penis.
     
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  7. PasterofMuppets

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    Saying masturbating is abnormal is like saying waking up after 4.30 am and going to bed after 6.30 pm like hens is abnormal. We evolved with the ability to masturbate. Animals do it. For thousands of years everybody did it and no one ever had a problem. I'm not saying you have a problem if you chose to abstain from it, respect, but in general, it has to be said that on average, people who did not masturbate, ever, had a much higher chance of having some kind of sexual trouble than people who did, before porn came along and screwed half of humanity's sexuality up.
     
  8. bluemax4

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    If you're masturbating, I think it's just a matter of time before porn comes back and then you're back at where you started. Just my opinion.
     
  9. ultrafabber

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    At this point i'm just tired to repeat this.

    No, we didn't evolve with the ability to masturbate. We could fuck a goat, that doesn't mean we evolved the capacity to fuck goats or that it's normal or functional.

    The overwhelming majority of animals do NOT do it. The very few that do it, do it rarely to completion.

    There is absolutely NO evidence that "For thousands of years everybody did it". Just because there are some rare depictions does not make it a common practice. It has been a condemned practice in most cultures, cultures that were not even related to one another (abrahamic religions, hindus, aztecs and even chinese that were not religious and many more). Masturbation being normal is just a lie of the sexual revolution.

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