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Porn has permanently destroyed my sex life

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by Gavalar09, Jan 16, 2020.

  1. Okoto

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    I consciously decided not to think anything sexual, whenever my mind begins to fantasize about sex, i consciously take my mind off it. I have realized listening to music helps a lot. I have also deleted facebook app on my phone. Seems most videos i watch there are not helpful.
    Thanks man. I am most grateful for this tip
     
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  2. Free your mind

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    Wow, thats such a gold! That should be written on the front page.
     
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  3. LetsGetThroughThis

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    I visit her about every other weekend, and orgasm 6-10 times during esch visit. This has been the case for the last 7 months or so. Do yoy think practicing karezza will help?
     
  4. Username321

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    if you did Karezza you would be ejaculating about ever 2 weeks.

    No doubt ejaculating less is going to help!!! Lol I mean, a male with no problem WILL get tired if they ejaculate too much, it’s natural. After each ejaculation it natural for your erection to get weaker.

    Karezza, Tantra and Taoist sex all require the male NOT to ejaculate in order to save energy. It’s basically edging in long form. Let me tell you, the feeling is glorious! I would have sex all weekend long and not ejaculate. The next week I would have tons of energy and felt light. It like the opposite feeling of ejaculating every day and feeling drained.

    i would highly suggest picking up The Multi Orgasmic Man book as a starting point of your new sexual journey. Also a great read about Karezza and relationships in general is Cupid’s Poisoned Arrow. Written by a woman and one of the early adopters of Nofap.
     
  5. Username321

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    Thank you for this distinction it really helps!

    I was in flatline for a long time. Then I started noticing woman more and more. But wasn’t getting aroused. I mistook it as my libido coming back.

    I’m still a little confused about my situation and thoughts. I’ll pay more attention.
     
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  6. LetsGetThroughThis

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    Interesting... I'm starting to wonder if maybe I no longer have PIED, but rather I have unrealistic expectations of how many times I should be able to have sex in a weekend. I feel like I do have a hard time getting aroused, and I've definitely been having PAWS symptoms this week. But maybe ive been having anxiety based on my unrealistic expectations. Idk...
     
  7. Username321

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    Buy this book, it's a great start - https://www.amazon.com/Multi-Orgasmic-Man-Sexual-Secrets-Should-ebook/dp/B000FC12XM

    I forgot what "normal" is? I believe sex 2-3 times a week is "normal"?

    So yes, I use to have sex, every day and then would jerk of another 2 or 3 times a day to porn. Hypersexual, over sexual? Ummm, absolutely!

    So yes, 6-8 times over the weekend is a bit much my friend! LOL! (edit: Yes of course you can engage in sexual relations 6-8 times over the weekend AND still take care of your partner, just try to lower the times you ejaculate to once.)

    Try not to get too hot when making love. Don't make orgasm the goal. Try to hover in that inbetween space, there is a lot of magic there. Time stops, it's an intimacy thing. I promise you, there is sooooo much more to sex than just having a big ol' exhausting orgasm. Try to play in that middle space without going over the edge.

    Like I said I was able to go a couple of weeks until I just HAD to release. Yes, it would be a big orgasm. But in some ways it was sort of a letdown. All that energy or "chi" that I built up was spent. Back to building it up again! ;)

    Edit: I also think you will experience much better eq when you ejaculate less. Also, you will get aroused more easily. Sometimes, less is more. ;)
     
    Last edited: Feb 28, 2020
  8. Tommmy1988

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    Hey im sorry..but i have to be straight with you..i read all your posts and my man..you really sound like you dont even want to get better.
    You achieved something before that some people are still trying. Like get the libido back..i imagine you start stressing out once cause it didnt go up..and that stress stayed..thats a powerfull mind play..i mean..try to take this as a wake up call..dont you think its time to really stop watching porn for good now? Just leave it and try not to think about it..think about your succes before ,
    Keep it up (pun intended )
     
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  9. Gavalar09

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    Well I'm about 3 months in again since my last PMO and I've had very long steaks and still am suffering Pied massively.
    It must be a permanant issue.
     

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