Porn is like an unhealthy relationship

Whether it is an friendly, family or love relationship, we all had one before. A relationship in where you know the person isn't adding something to your life or worse holding you back. But because of the lenth of the relationship, the stuff you went through together or because it is family, you don't cut that person out of your life. And then not much will change. But when or if you do actually cut the person out of your life, you notice at first the lost, an empty space in your heart. And it is hard to let go. You think a lot about them and the good times you had. Or not. And you notice that you're way better of without that person and now you see how much that person was holding you back. And as time passes, you're life will feel better, not perfect but definitely better. You have more time for yourself and a lot of negative things aren't there anymore to hold your back. And offcourse you still sometimes think about the person and the times you had and you want to go back but it becomes les frequent and less painfull. And that is wat this addiction also is. It will always be in our minds, atleast at the beginning but less frequent the more we stay away from it, we feel empty at the beginning, life will definitely not be perfect, but over time we will feel better, have more time for ourselfs and like the unhealthy relationship we can only come to the conclusion that we're better off without it.

Just some thought i had, maybe it can be of some value for someone. Lets keep going!