Porn is ruining my life

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The Next Elon Musk

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I am a recent graduate currently working as a programmer. 7 years (and counting) of Porn is ruining my life. My grades in university suffered greatly as I was not able to achieve half my potential as whenever I would be alone in my room I would start watching porn and masturbating. I am currently suffering at my job as there is so much I need to learn and study outside work in order to keep up with my job and I am not able to do that as I resort to porn and masturbation whenever I am alone. It's like I have lost all will power and control over my life and actions. I am not able to do anything I plan to do. I have tried so many times to quit and have failed spectacularly. Bottom line is, I can't do it alone and I can't talk to anyone about it so I thought the nofap community might be able to help me to regain control over my life. Thanks.
 
Try taking small steps to fight this horrible addiction Remember that as hard as it is it is Not Impossible. It's mostly a mind game but you can regain your sanity if you are determined to do so. Always remember that a few minutes of pleasure are not worth you losing your peace of mind. The more you say no to PMO the stronger you'll become. Every time you find yourself alone try going outside, say a prayer, take a cold shower, write down how bad you feel after it's over, exercise, and work on a hobby you really like. Become an expert at something that interests you :)
 
I am currently dealing with PMO, but it only has worsen, i no longer need masturbation or porn, Literally i Just have an impure thought and I clímax, its so embarrasing
 
Newgirl said:
Try taking small steps to fight this horrible addiction Remember that as hard as it is it is Not Impossible. It's mostly a mind game but you can regain your sanity if you are determined to do so. Always remember that a few minutes of pleasure are not worth you losing your peace of mind. The more you say no to PMO the stronger you'll become. Every time you find yourself alone try going outside, say a prayer, take a cold shower, write down how bad you feel after it's over, exercise, and work on a hobby you really like. Become an expert at something that interests you :)
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Thank you for your comment. Well I am officially quitting today and I will try to give it my all and I will try out your suggestions. #day1.
 
The Next Elon Musk said:
Regarding the name "The next Elon Musk", well I aspire to start my own tech company one day, however that will never happen if I do not overcome this horrible problem.
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Good luck. I am a big fan of Elon. Two questions for you. What kind of tech company do you want to start? and What kind of porn are you stuck on?
 
Sarai said:
I am currently dealing with PMO, but it only has worsen, i no longer need masturbation or porn, Literally i Just have an impure thought and I clímax, its so embarrasing
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Do woman have impure thoughts? I am able to get my wife to climax in two seconds when I talk dirty to her. It's helped me get over my addiction the past few months since it has been an outlet for sex with my wife. Typically, she is very vanilla in the bedroom but i am now seeing that she has a naughty side but is hesitant to act fully on it. From a woman's experience how can I draw it out more? I ask because it is helping me get back to a more healthy sexual place with my wife.
 
RecoveringAddict39 said:
Good luck. I am a big fan of Elon. Two questions for you. What kind of tech company do you want to start? and What kind of porn are you stuck on?
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Well It is not going too well, i just relapse. The porn i watch fairly mild but excessive therefore it drains so much of my time and energy and I do not know how to stay away from it. I would like to start a company that solves problems for people. One idea I have is to build a company that builds prosthetic limbs that are better and cheaper than what we have out there today. However I haven't worked out the kinks yet, porn is consuming all my time and I am unable to work on my goals.
 
The Next Elon Musk said:
I am a recent graduate currently working as a programmer. 7 years (and counting) of Porn is ruining my life. My grades in university suffered greatly as I was not able to achieve half my potential as whenever I would be alone in my room I would start watching porn and masturbating. I am currently suffering at my job as there is so much I need to learn and study outside work in order to keep up with my job and I am not able to do that as I resort to porn and masturbation whenever I am alone. It's like I have lost all will power and control over my life and actions. I am not able to do anything I plan to do. I have tried so many times to quit and have failed spectacularly. Bottom line is, I can't do it alone and I can't talk to anyone about it so I thought the nofap community might be able to help me to regain control over my life. Thanks.
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Hello and welcome!
Yes... The community is very supportive and crucial for a successful reboot.
Wishing you best luck.
 
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