Porn kills Love.. don't give in. Make your life happen

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by RavenCrow, Nov 5, 2019.

  1. RavenCrow

    RavenCrow Fapstronaut

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    I've been betrayed and lied to by the one I love most. The secrecy and and shame kept him in a dark place. No amount of sex and love could pull him away from his own self hatred and self destruction. The lies broke me to my core ... Intimacy and true connection is what he was seeking in porn and it wired his brain to only search there for relief- Leaving him blind to the beautiful willing loving woman standing right before his eyes. What he desired most was tossed away by this poison crutch he hated but couldn't stop.. I will always love him... and I hope he remembers me for the spirit of love I tried to share with him. That day is sadly not today .. or the past 4 years.

    Stay strong everybody. Porn is the lie of the century.. it disconnects you and makes it hard to let someone truly love you. And it hinders your ability to truly love another. What you want is intimacy... you cant get that from pixels on a screen. Keep up the good fight. YOU ARE WORTH IT!
     
  2. Renewed_soul

    Renewed_soul Fapstronaut

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    you just said everything
     
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  3. Hold it in

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    Of course you are right. The Devil comes to steal, kill and destroy. Porn is a weapon of Satan, he cannot create so he perverts

    The filthy animal. I can't wait until God sends him to the second Death that is the Lake of Fire where he will be tormented day and night, forever and ever AMEN.
     
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  4. prettyboichad

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    Thank you for this personal message. Porn distorts intimacy.
    I don't want to rob my future wife, my current friends and family, or myself of what is deserved.
    That is, The best.

    Keep up the good fight, LIFE is worth it!! YOU are worth it!!
     
  5. ClearTheFog

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    That was so good, honest and also sad to read, thank you!
    Even when the partner knows about the addiction, he/she can only help to some degree - we the addicts have to be honest with ourselves, make the decision, seek out for help and put in the work and willpower!

    I truly believe it’s so worth it and that it’s possible if you have ppl who believe in you. But in the end one must believe in oneself !!!

    Thanks again, it’s very helpful to hear the other side of the story
     
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